My child is in first year elsewhere in Scotland. He is in self catering halls so it’s very expensive, about £600 a month . But only for 9 months of course and everything is included.
He gets the maximum amount from SAAS , including the bursary.
After hall fees it works out as about £50 a week everything , including food and travel, which is tight and we help out a bit. Not a lot extra, just £20 here and there.
Most of his friends have about £65. He doesn’t know anyway who has as much as £100 a week, as mentioned up thread.
He works in the summer but not in term time.
He thinks he will be much better off next year when he’s planing to share a flat with friends. But I think it will be about the same, as it’s a 12 month lease and bills on top.
I reckon they need about £7.5 k pa to have a reasonable time at uni and not be totally skint. That’s enough to allow them to go out at weekends but not get smashed in the union every night. And assumes they can shop in aldi and cook and not live on carry outs.
DS is not a big drinker but does a lot of sport and other cheap hobbies. So has a very busy but not too expensive social life.
OP if your son will get about £6.2k from SAAS then can he get a job to earn another £1,000 or 1,500? That’s quite doable I think.
Depends how much spare you have to give him too. For many families they don’t have much. And if you are working hard yourself to pay your own bills, you might resent giving your 18 year old money to piss up the wall every weekend. And their siblings might resent it too, especially if they don’t go to uni Themselves.
Personally I’m halppy to help with basic living costs but feel they can work and earn their own beer money. I’m a hard woman.