I'm not assuming that at all, and I cannot for the life of me see how you get that from my post.
But if you think we are lying, you should say so upfront and give evidence as to why. Anecdotes as to what happened to your children are not evidence that we are lying- quite understandably, you're not going to tell us which courses and university they applied to, and, as I say, you can't explain their specific situation without knowing that because every course and university are different. I don't know if you alleging that equal consideration rule doesn't exist, or that it is routinely broken, but in either case you have provided no evidence of that. What you do seem to think is that the rule doesn't matter to you (I find it rather extraordinary that you think that breaching a rule is fine if it benefits you and your children, but hey....)and therefore it doesn't matter, but it would matter to someone who lost out on an offer because they applied a little bit later - and, as someone who'd probably lose my job if I breached it, it matters a great deal to me which is why I don't breach it (I also think that rewarding early application is profoundly unfair and a poor basis for selecting onto an academic course, but that's a separate matter....)
Am I protesting too much? No. 10 years of admissions experience tells me that there are a lot of myths and misconceptions out there about the University admissions process, which cause great anxiety, particularly in families who have no experience of higher education. Over that time, I have worked hard to be as transparent as possible to our applicants about our processes, in order to demystify, and I've made a bit of an effort to do that on Mumsnet as well. Lots of people will read this thread without posting on it, now and in the future, and I think it important that they get a clear message as to the rules that apply. That's my protest. To be honest, my real advice to anyone who is worried about this is to speak to the admissions staff at the universities they are interested in, either at Open Days or by email, and ask. At least then you have concrete information as to the particular situation of the particular course, and you'll know that the source is reliable (people on the internet could be anyone....). And if you think that the equal consideration rule has been breached in the case of someone you know, ask the institution for feedback as to why the decision was taken and, if you are not satisfied, complain.
And that's really my last word - I have better things to do.....