Ughhhhh. This is prob going to be a long one, and possibly I just need a vent.
Son has SEN & physical disabilities & long term health issues. He was at college doing BTEC in IT & things were awful at college - SENCO left, they didn't know he had an EHCP, they bullied me about his absences, he had 7 teachers in 2 years as they all left. OFSTED had it in the old 'special measures' through 3 inspections. He had to change the qualification he had intended as he missed so much. But in the end he pulled it out of the bag & got double Merit.
He was advised to apply for uni (after UCAS deadline, so thro clearing) & yesterday was given an offer at the uni he wanted to go too. We were elated, but I had a niggling doubt.
Uni clearing said he had enough points & my concerns over the qualification code weren't founded as there were different codes for diff exam boards.
I still had niggling doubts & asked college to confirm today & I was right. The code was wrong & he doesn't have enough points.
I suffer from severe MH problems & I'm having a huge meltdown.
We've been thro so much (domestic violence while I was preg, no contact w/ his dad for 17 years now, estranged from my family, over 20 operations, degenerative neuromuscular condition on top of lots of other chronic health issues). I just feel that it never goes right & I feel so hopeless.
Maybe this should be in a mental health board??
Just need a handhold. I'm trying to figure out what to do but uni said yesterday that if qual was wrong he didn't have enough points.