And on the opposite side of the coin from the "I don't want to go...":
Ds had a rough year 12 - he missed quite a lot of college due to illness, plus was diagnosed with something else. He thought he had messed up his AS Levels and was looking into trying to repeat the year etc.
AS results were 4 As, two 100%, one 97% and one 89%. Given these results (and his GCSEs) he might have a punt at Oxbridge, but he has made absolutely no preparation. His friend, aiming for Cambridge, has done Duke of Edinburgh, masterclasses, written personal statement, attended Oxbridge classes etc etc etc. Ds has a)done none of these and probably more relevant b) has done absolutely no extra reading round the subject of interest.
He could of course apply after A Levels but he might not get A*s and at the moment he looks quite good on paper.
Any advice?