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Renting room in exchange for childcare

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Oakmaiden · 16/11/2014 20:13

Mulling over a few options for childcare when I start my new job in January, and wondered whether mothers of uni students thought this would be a good idea or not. I have posted about this is childcare too, although from a slightly different angle.

I was wondering about the idea of finding a student who would like to live in my spare room rent free, in exchange for doing some childcare.

I have 3 children - a 16 year old boy, an 11 year old girl and a 9 year old boy. The eldest is on the autistic spectrum - he is pretty good really, but he cannot be responsible for his siblings at all, and does need someone pointing him in the right direction in the mornings.

I will be leaving for work at 6:30am - I would need someone to get the children up at this time, make sure they eat breakfast, and walk the younger two to school for 8am. I also won't get home until about 6-6:30 pm, so someone would need to pick them up from school, walk them home and keep an eye on them until I get there. Their school day finishes at 3:30, although they could stay in after school club until 5:30 if the student had lectures until 5. Their school is across the road from one of the uni campuses. So I am basically looking for someone responsible to supervise my children for either 2 1/2 or 4 1/2 hours a day altogether. I can be a bit flexible with this - the children are capable of walking to and from school on their own, but I really don't want them in the house on their own with their elder brother.

In exchange for the child supervision I would offer a rent free room (student rooms in this area are about £60 per week) with food and bills included. If the student was doing more than 2 1/2 hours a day I would also offer an appropriate amount of "pocket money".

Do you think this is something some students might be interested in, or is it a stupid idea?

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Oakmaiden · 18/11/2014 17:16

Life would be much simpler if I had a 16 year old who could be trusted... sigh

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JeanneDeMontbaston · 18/11/2014 19:24

Ah, I follow - sorry, I hadn't seen you were planning to pay them.

TheAwfulDaughter · 18/11/2014 19:53

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JeanneDeMontbaston · 19/11/2014 00:46

Er .. yes, but if you're actually better off living with your friends and doing 20 hours a week at hours you choose, it's hard to see why this appeals.

That's why I asked the OP, and why she clarified she was actually planning to pay students if they worked 4 or more hours per day. You'd have to be a rather well-off student to cope with working that many hours without actual financial recompense!

ChippingInAutumnLover · 19/11/2014 03:06

Yes Oak it would - you get used to life being what it is, but every now & then it just kicks you in teeth as a reminder of how your life is that bit more difficult doesn't it :(

It doesn't matter if there aren't hundreds of students wanting to do it. It would have suited a fair few of us and you only need 1!!

ljny · 19/11/2014 18:09

It would have suited a fair few of us and you only need 1!!

^^This.

It's a wonderful idea, Oak. All students aren't cut from the same cloth. Sounds like a perfect solution for some - good luck finding one of them.

sashh · 19/11/2014 20:58

sassh - why would it not be legal?

Because the person would not have a childcare qualification.
Are you an employer or a landlord? If you are an employer then you are not paying minimum wage. And if you are both an employer and landlord then legally you you still have to pay minimum wage, although you can deduct some for accommodation, for 12.5 hours a week you would need to pay about £40.

What is the situation with insurance? Your home and contents and what if something happens when the student is in charge? An Au pair would come with insurance (I think)

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ralgex · 21/11/2014 00:05

I wonder if it could be someone who is studying autism, if they are to be involved with your oldest?

Oakmaiden · 21/11/2014 22:35

Because the person would not have a childcare qualification Not a legal requirement.

Are you an employer or a landlord? Ok, will need to investigate this further. I hadn't done a lot of hard thought about it - it was just an idea, and I wondered if it would work. Same with insurance (though I suspect the situation would be the same with an au pair.)

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Lonecatwithkitten · 21/11/2014 23:03

I'll answer the insurance question for you, if the person caring for your children is an employee (money is changing hands so yes this covers an AP) your household insurance would have no problems.
However, if they are exchanging lodgings for child care they could be classed as a lodger or tenant some insurance companies may charge extra for this and public liability when they are caring for your children might not be fully in place.

RoomSeeker · 22/12/2018 22:54

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MarchingFrogs · 23/12/2018 00:05

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Xenia · 24/12/2018 11:22

Sounds like a good idea. We had someone coming to our house to look after the children for decades. It is as far as I know perfectly legal. Lots of people with live in nannies easily get insurance.

I have had / have had 5 student children. I think they tend to get up in tghe mornings around noon or 2pm unless there are lectures so you might not find they are rushing to take the job! However you might be lucky. My son was very good with children as he did so much at home even school collection for years for his 10 years younger siblngs etc. (Although he is not an early bird for mornings either). If you can find someone like that with loads of experience of looking after younger siblings they can be very responsible and reliable.

To be fair to my late rising student children, one of them did at one stage take her horse to university and was getting up at the crack of dawn to drive to where it was based and muck it out! So if they really have an incentive some of them will get out of bed early in the morning.

BringOnTheScience · 24/12/2018 12:51

Zombie Thread!!!

This was four years ago!

user1499173618 · 25/12/2018 22:45

A friend of mine has a student living rent free in the studio apartment attached to her home where she used to house an au pair when her children were younger. The student has to do babysitting only. It works sometimes but there is quite a bit of turnover. Don’t take a student on a very demanding course.

Bekabeech · 28/12/2018 08:42

I have known lots of people do similar. I even knew one who was employed as a Nanny whilst doing her degree. The most successful seem to have a self contained flat/area and offer it for lower rent in return for some babysitting. But both parties need to respect privacy and be realistic about hours etc.
And pay for any extra babysitting (and not assume availability).

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