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what do they really need to take?

45 replies

cricketballs · 28/07/2014 08:06

After years of buying things for primary, secondary and college which were never needed, I'm determined not to waste money again! I have no personal experience of living in halls, so what do they actually need to take! On open day the student guides did say don't purchase a kettle/toaster until they move in as in a self catered flat with 6 bedrooms has no need for 6 kettles! But, need to start buying things so we dont have to do a huge shop - so what do they need?

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MummiUni · 18/08/2014 09:04

Lol at "&bull" I don't know why it's done that but it all looks 'bull' to me Smile

Lilymaid · 18/08/2014 09:17

Blimey that looks a bit prescriptive! Door wedge? Useful to keep door open as you move in so you can meet your neighbours, though. I supplied a bottle of vodka and a chocolate cake to my DSs to cement friendships - worked well!
No camera needed if you have a smart phone but a cheap "drunk" phone is useful.
NB my DSs are not hopeless alcoholics ...

secretsquirrels · 18/08/2014 09:36

Grin at MummiUni DD list. Now actually that list might be a good starting point. Work through and cross off what you don't need and there will be nothing forgotten.

alreadytaken
And do get the free prescription form do students get this? I was a bit Hmm last week when DS had to pay at the dentist. He has no income and is in between school and university. I still get Child Benefit for him, but no, they said he had to pay.

Theas18 · 18/08/2014 09:49

My feeling is buy as little new as possible re" household stuff" you /thy will have so much to spend on anyway so anything you don't spend is good :)

Take old familiar bedding/towels etc, a few pans/bits of crockery that you'd rather never see again, and a good chopping knife and board ( NEVER leave that in the kitchen!) and you'll be fine.

Here most of it has come from grandma ( for 2 kids so far!) as she has shed loads of crap as she had a caravan etc and didn't get rid of the stuff there!

I'd go as far as to say not to take brand new laptops etc if they have a functional ones already. Makes life easier not feeling that breaking things/having them stolen would be " the end of the world".

Students will do daft things, they'll put plastic kettles on the hob,clean the kitchen with white face flannels, turn all the washing pink etc ( yes DD I'm looking at you, why did you think a T shirt from Holi was a good thing to put in with bedding and towels.... it'll fade) and if all these things are low stress it'll help. I don't think It'll make them care any less about their stuff, or it hasn't here.

I had old crap from home. It was very comforting.

Theas18 · 18/08/2014 09:51

And parents, when you visit/drop off etc. TAKE FOOD.

Either a large shop from Aldi of non perishables ( keep tins under the bed) and /or a large cake ( preferably home made) as a friend maker.

My uni mate Rog had " sausage pie parties" when his Mum and dad had visited!

secretsquirrels · 18/08/2014 10:32

Theas18 I have cupboards full of old stuff some of which dates back to my grandmother who died 30 years ago Grin. We won't be buying new plates, pans or cutlery or textiles here for sure.
I had thought of food but didn't want to be seen as fussing. I am used to cooking huge quantities of casseroles, bolognese type stuff which I use to feed and freeze. Would some plastic tubs of frozen home made meals be a good idea?

alreadytaken · 18/08/2014 21:46

students do not always quaify for free prescriptions. Mine didn't bother applying as they worked in the summer, they have to send the last couple of pay slips and we didn't think they'd qualify. But some students will qualify, especially if they don't have a job, and they only lose a bit of time in applying. If they suddenly find they are paying a lot they should ask for receipts, apply and see if they can claim the cost back. If you haven't provided the form they probably won't think to do it.

secretsquirrels there tends not to be much room in student fridges and they don't all have freezers so any home sent food may have to be eaten rather rapidly. Still it's another way to make friends......Home made rich fruit cakes that will keep a while are popular. We gave our child a neat fold up shopper - don't think it was ever used as they had dozens of carrier bags in their room when we collected them. Some people might suggest a shopper with wheels to bring home the booze shopping.

Quite a few parents take their child off to the nearest supermarket when they arrive. Don't overdo it, taking up all the storage in the cupboards is not a good start. We supplied a pack of emergency food rations - canned soup, pasta, sauce, rice, baked beans, biscuits, breakfast bars, cereal and long-life milk, dried fruit, small bag flour (for pancakes and cake in a mug), small bottle cooking oil, coffee, dried herbs. We thought finding the supermarket might be a bonding experience Smile. If they are self-catering you can always order a delivery of food for them. Some recipes, including cake in a mug, are useful. If they don't already cook they need to learn.

The student room list posted above is a good checklist but they don't need the lot! The chopping board we provided was still in the wrapper 6 months later.

alreadytaken · 18/08/2014 21:54

forgot - best tip from last year was send them with granny plates (patterned) so they know which are theirs. And the door wedge we supplied wasn't strong enough for fire doors so they dumped other things to hold it open.

Another tip - plastic storage boxes make it easier to move things to the room. Get the small size so they fit under beds and don't weigh a ton with their books in. Take black plastic sacks for bedding/towels as they squash into corners of the car. A few photos to remind them that they do have friends when feeling lost at the start.

Changebagsandgladrags · 18/08/2014 22:47

My dad got me a whole boot full of lever arch files he'd found in a skip

Theas18 · 18/08/2014 23:30

Secret squirrel if your DS will be self catered in 1st year and you know he will have freezer space I'd take a few freezer meals. I recall years ago as a sc fresher there were events with food during freshers then all of a sudden you were on your own- at the same point lectures started , you realised ther was work to do, and maybe felt a bit homesick.

We do a big shop of cheap and heavy stuff that till now has been kept mostly in her room. My kids are big milk drinkers so 12l uht for instance lol . It's just a chore to carry back from aldi otherwise without a car. We also have a tradition of a " back to uni ham" one of the £5 joints cooked the day before so she can eat some, share some and freeze some.

Just realised have to get 2 kids to the same place on the same weekend this year - one into an " unfurnished" rental! Think well be hiring a van.

Theas18 · 18/08/2014 23:33

Re free prescriptions/ dentists - we have had exactly the same. The big kids were charged at the dentist and given a form to claim it back, which is so complex that it'll never get done !

secretsquirrels · 19/08/2014 08:49

Theas18 It could be worse they could be at opposite ends of the country Grin.

Yes I have got the form for claiming free scripts and even as an ex professional form filler civil servant it's a tedious form to fill in. He has a part time job but it doesn't pay much so probably worth a try.

cricketballs · 19/08/2014 12:48

Since I first asked, DS has found 3 of his flat mates through TSR & FB. They have been chatting away and decided between them that they will go shopping for kitchen stuff when they get there so will be sharing. So all we have to get to take down is bedroom/bathroom stuff

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FantaSea · 19/08/2014 14:16

secret my DD has just got the HC2 certificate back entitling her to free prescriptions, free sight tests and a voucher for her glasses, and free NHS dental treatment. I would give it a try - I spoke with someone on the phone about whether DD would be entitled to it and she said if they had no/very low income and savings in their name that didn't exceed £4000 then she would get it.

TinklyLittleLaugh · 20/08/2014 14:17

DS took his bike, (old one, not his posh mountain bike) and a very good lock. Saved a fortune in transport costs and wasn't hanging around for buses. Also a big box of Heroes for sharing. Door wedges were a chucking out offence in DD's first hall.

When we walked into his accommodation, all nervous and shy, flat, one of the lads already there handed him an open beer, and just like that, they were mates. I actually got a bit teared up thinking of meeting my own best mate in a very similar fashion 30 years ago.

sashh · 20/08/2014 15:44

MummiUni I think she will cope without the brolly

alreadytaken · 22/08/2014 16:47

although they may remember to take something for fancy dress they may not think to take anything Christmassey - ties, hats, jumpers. Unless you are sure they will be home/ you will visit it's something to consider.

senua · 23/08/2014 14:54

Door wedges were a chucking out offence in DD's first hall.

Yup. Most doors these days are fire doors and you get into trouble with the wardens if you wedge them open. Besides which, the doors are so heavy and have such strong closers that they are impossible to wedge open.

Shootingatpigeons · 24/08/2014 10:52

DD1 has provided DD2 with a complete university survival kit

Plasters
Flu medication
Ear Plugs
Eye mask
Instant noodles
Emergency wine
Durex
kit to make roll ups

I am trying not to think about it Hmm

alreadytaken · 24/08/2014 15:45

durex is quite often available in freshers welcome packs or free elsewhere at the university.

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