No support at home for my education

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EllenNeve · 16/02/2011 21:23

I have not posted here before, but I wondered if anyone might have advice.

I am sitting in my room trying to study - i have important stuff that is due in very soon. My Mum is downstairs with the TV on and it is so loud I can hear it up in my room. I can't concentrate and when I asked if I could turn it down she said "it's not very loud" - meaning "No".

I feel so frustrated and angry - and also a bit scared because if I don't get my project done then there will be big repercussions, like I might fail or not be allowed to continue the course.

I don't know what to do. Maybe I should move out. i really wish I could. I hate living at home and I hate the way no one ever says what they mean - they just say something that sounds kind but is empty.

Right now I don't know what to do - should I stay up late so I can have some peace and quiet in the night to do my work? I get so tired when I do that - it difficult the next day and then it makes me cross and the atmosphere just gets worse.

Anyway, thannks for your help!

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webwiz · 16/02/2011 21:43

Sorry to hear you're having problems its difficult to concentrate when there are things going on in the house. Have you tried putting some music on low to block out the tv a bit?

Do you have anywhere else you can work could you stay at college for a bit at the end of the day and get some work done then.

Have you spoken to your mum about your project perhaps she has no idea that its bothering you and that you have a deadline coming up?

I have done a few late nights working but it tends to be when a deadline is imminent and not something to do done regularly!

Bluebell99 · 16/02/2011 21:45

How about earplugs? That's what I used to use when I was at home with my parents and trying to study. Sorry your mum isn't more supportive though.

beanlet · 18/02/2011 16:36

Earplugs or noise cancelling headphones can be a lifesaver. Have you thought about using your college or local library? You could also find out if your nearest university allow older school pupils to use their library - many of them are open 24 hours.

Finally you should be really proud of yourself for persevering with something so important when noone around you cares.

gingeroots · 18/02/2011 20:30

How did it go Ellen - did you get it done ?
Lots of students post on here
www.thestudentroom.co.uk/forumdisplay.php?f=80

Might have some words of support ....sounds tough ,well done you for keeping going .

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EllenNeve · 19/02/2011 23:29

Thanks...I am managing to persevere. It will take a few weeks before I'm finished!

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Bearcat · 20/02/2011 01:07

How about working in your local library.
They are usually quite peaceful places with computers

Acinonyx · 20/02/2011 19:16

I remember nagging my parents to turn the TV down! I also remember no interest or support. It's tough, but at the end of the day - the best revenge is living well. Basically - it's YOUR education - use ear plugs or whatever but basically suck it up and you will get to move on. I speak from experience!

mrsscoob · 21/02/2011 11:03

Have you thought about uni and moving to halls there? You can get grants/loans to cover your living expenses x

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