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Gifted and talented

Talk to other parents about parenting a gifted child on this forum.

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earsandbeer · 30/01/2010 22:27

My DD went to her first 'Extended learning workshop' for G&T children, she seemed to really enjoy it and came back full of all the fun facts she had learnt.

I'd known for a while she was way ahead in reading ( 6 years old and already on Prisoner of Azkaban ) and last school report had key stage 3 as her reading level. She's good all rounder academically and also enjoys playing rugby!

I don't tend to shout about her achievements or the fact she is on the G&T roll as I'm really not into the whole yummy mummy thing, in fact I tend to hang back at the school gate with my MP3 player firmly implanted in my ears!

I'm a single parent and don't see the need to dress for the school run like I'm going to the Queens Garden party and stand around comparing and contrasting every last detail of my child's development stages!

I've lived in this area since she was born ( I live with my parents) and couldn't afford a 3 wheeler space station style pushchair or the latest gap clothes and I could see the way they all looked down their noses at me at playgroups etc!!

But it is nice to boost sometimes hence why I'm here, both me and DD have the same issues with her smartness, me getting frustrated with the constant questioning, the best being during a fireworks display when she needed to know how and why the fireworks worked instead of just enjoying them!

While she is popular she is often called Geek or excluded for being a teachers pet ( although the teacher described her as Marmite ( luckily this teacher loves the constantly having to justify everything to her, the last one wasn't so keen!))

I've had family say I'm going about her intelligence all wrong ( some saying I'm doing the wrong thing by not getting her a scholarship to a private school, others saying I shouldn't let her be on the G&T roll and should tell her to hide her talents so she'll be popular or marked out as different )....Jees if parenting isn't hard enough with out this!!

Anyway after prattling on all this while I guess I should ask a question! NAGC worth joining?

I think that is it, hope you haven't got to the bottom of this and though woo this women has a gifted and talented child and writes posts like this poor child!!

Look forward to talking and sharing with people.

Me :O)

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englishpatient · 31/01/2010 13:34

Hello, earsandbeer, I'm sorry to see you haven't had any responses yet!

Your DD sounds lovely. I have a DD aged 12 and DS aged 7. We have been NAGC members for about 6 years, and have found it very good.

We go to the annual "Family weekend" and have always all enjoyed it - they have really good activities for the children (very varied, with lots of choice) and interesting talks / discussion groups for parents.

One of the best things for me is being able to discuss the DCs without feeling that the other parents think I am showing off, and to compare notes about experience of schools, etc.

They have local groups but none near to us, although there is now an email group. We used to travel to the Greater Manchester & Cheshire group "Saturday Club" but it was only 2 hours and our round trip took 4 hours!

The helpline was useful when we had a dilemma about DD moving up a year and there are lots of information sheets available online and by post.

Your DD's extended learning workshop sounds really good - was it organised by her school? Did the school recommend NAGC?

Looking forward to hearing more from you.

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