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Before anyone comes at me....

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Journeyintomelody · 22/10/2024 06:45

...I'm not saying my baby is gifted, or even bright for that matter. She is 7.5 months so way to early for any of that!

Out of all the places on Mumsnet, however, Im hoping this section will allow me a proud mama moment. I haven't said anything to anyone in real life, but I want to shout from the roof tops how proud I am of DD.

Last week she took her first few wobbly steps. She's been babbling mama for a while now but yesterday she was trying reach for something behind me, I looked around gave her toy panda (soft toy she has had from birth) and she smiled and said clear as day "panda". She also recognises her name and other familiar words such as "bath time" "dinner" "grandad" She is so aware. When I sing to her she claps at the end of the song, she can wave hello and goodbye. Her attention span is incredible. We read a lot together, she can turn the pages of the board books at the right moments (still too rough for the paper books but she will sit and listen to several stories back to back). I can leave her in her playpen with one toy whilst I cook and eat dinner (popping my head in to check on her of course!) and she is still happy babbling and playing with it when I come back. She smiles at everyone. At baby groups she crawls to the centre and stares at the person leading the group, completely engaged. (I am the least interesting person in the room!). She loves music and has just started to "sing" notes,for example if I leave out the last note of twinkle twinkle little star she will fill in the gap with "ahhhhhh". I'm just so proud of how well she is doing.

I'm not doing anything specific, it's just her. I'm sure she will even out in time but at the moment she seems so ahead.

Thank you for letting me indulge and boast about my baby.

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AlwaysFreezing · 22/10/2024 06:50

Aaaaaw, lovely! My first baby was a lot like this, so content, so switched on.

I don't want to piss on your chips, but my second was NOT like this. Possibly the unhappiest baby any one has ever known in the history of mankind.

Why am I telling you? To make sure you really enjoy this one! It's a joy when it's like this.

InterstellarDrifter · 22/10/2024 06:54

That's lovely and you can proud. My Dd was similar and said her first word at 6 months. It was a bit of a shock and there were witnesses.
Yeah, it may even out in the end but some kids are really bright and stay bright.

Journeyintomelody · 22/10/2024 06:55

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Haha. Wow okay. Slightly harsh. I don't really want to be 'that mum' who goes on about amazing their child is (because let's face it every parent is proud of the child, right?). I've got people I could share it with but I'd rather post on an anonymous forum because I'm kinda shy.

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Journeyintomelody · 22/10/2024 06:58

AlwaysFreezing · 22/10/2024 06:50

Aaaaaw, lovely! My first baby was a lot like this, so content, so switched on.

I don't want to piss on your chips, but my second was NOT like this. Possibly the unhappiest baby any one has ever known in the history of mankind.

Why am I telling you? To make sure you really enjoy this one! It's a joy when it's like this.

Thank you! I love watching her grow into herself. By the time they are all in reception you can't tell who was the early walker and who spoke earliest. I know it's not a race, its just that she keeps catching me by surprise and I'm struggling to keep up!

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Cocothecoconut · 22/10/2024 07:04

Aww, that is fabulous, babies are just so gorgeous
hope you have the stair gate and cupboard locks ready 😁

spiritgoat · 22/10/2024 07:09

Awww this is fab! What a clever little one! X

Russetshaded · 22/10/2024 07:16

She sounds wonderful!

Soñando25 · 22/10/2024 07:21

I think that's lovely - enjoy every moment OP.
One of my children was also like this and actually, it didn't change!
They are now an extremely successful ( and very modest and kind) adult.

Gigihadid · 22/10/2024 07:25

Aaahh this is nice. I can see why you’re so proud. I’d also feel weird about sharing these things with people in life to try not to be “that mum”, which is a shame really but I do think people will notice anyway.
My son was sitting up in a baby group at 4 months unaided and a couple of mums made comments that made me so proud. He started waving at 5 months and I’d secretly love it when people saw it.
He’s 2 now and actually a little behind with his speech but I’m equally as proud when he tries to say something, even if I don’t have a clue what it is.
Keep enjoying all these moment, you need the great days to counteract the less great ones.

Stealthsewist · 04/11/2024 19:41

She sounds lovely. Babies are just getting to be so fun at that stage, so much personality starts coming through. Enjoy your sweet girl!

BusyBeatle · 04/11/2024 23:12

Ahh this is adorable. Well done her!

crazycrofter · 05/12/2024 16:57

Ah that's so sweet and it's brought back memories of my dd at the same age (she's 20 now!). She was so alert and smiley, and an early talker too. People were always amazed at her! She's totally normal now, bright but no genius and still very very sociable and well liked!

Enjoy the journey and be as proud as you want!

harrietm87 · 05/12/2024 17:06

She sounds gorgeous OP - enjoy every second!

My DC1 was similar - average on the motor skills (crawled at 7 months, walked at 11 months) but was a very early talker. He said his first word at 8 months and was joining 2 words together by his first birthday (had hundreds of words at that point). He was talking fluently by 18 months - more like a 3yo by that point. I thought he was an absolute genius! I think I posted about him on mumsnet and had numerous people tell me he probably had ASD or some other disability.

Anyway he is 6 now and bright but not anything special. In the top 5 in his class maybe but not advanced for his age group. (And NT fwiw). He’s still gorgeous mind you! But just to say that, as you know, being an advanced baby doesn’t necessarily mean much.

My DC2 was a lot more normal and I think may end up being more academic than DC1 in the end.

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