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DS1 Obsessive behaviour . . . not sure where to post . . .

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vitapulchra · 02/03/2012 10:26

Whilst my DS1 (just 7, in Y2) is very bright, very sensitive and exceptionally good at maths, I'm not sure his behaviour is related. But I thought that posting in this area might elicit more understanding responses? Or not, I don't know. Problem is he goes through phases of nearly obsessive physical tics. Age 3 it was wincing (constantly), that passed then it was scratching (claimed he itched all over his body, constantly), now it's aggressive self-kissing (that is, instead of having his mum kiss a hurt better, he's taken to kissing himself, everywhere, all the time.) And yes, I know he's 7. His teacher has just informed me that it's becoming an issue within the classroom--other kids think he's really weird and the "tics" interfere with proper, regular behaviour. He has an upcoming appt with our GP but I don't hold much hope for that one. I've previously asked if he can be assessed by an educational psychologist (only should the school consider it necessary to formulate a programme to meet his academic needs) but here in the very small isolated area where I live this is impossible. We've also considered autism but socially he's very adept, keen sense of humour, good friends (even a Y2 girlfriend!). Perhaps he's still somewhere on the spectrum? Labels aside, what on earth do I do next?

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adoptmama · 02/03/2012 10:46

So sorry to hear of your DS' struggles. It must be a huge worry for you. My DD1 (age 4 Reception) was assessed last year in May. She had a lot of anxiety related issues and some behaviours over clothes, noises and smells. Psychologist labelled some of her behaviours as obsessive/compulsive. It is very possible for children this young to have issues. I would do everything you can to get an assessment with a psychologist. If your GP can't/won't refer him to a psychologist, is there a possibility of you seeing one privately (which would likely be faster). Also, even though you live in a more isolated area, I would assume your local education authority makes use of psychological services: can the school provide you with contact details? Good luck.

vitapulchra · 02/03/2012 11:26

Thanks for the reply. Can I ask what the outcome was for your DD? Practically speaking, how was the labelling helpful for you? Did it change any of your/her behaviour or help in any way?

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Pagwatch · 02/03/2012 11:30

My son has ocd. If I had a question about ocd I would post it in special needs.

vitapulchra · 02/03/2012 11:46

Thanks, will do. I wasn't sure what to think of it/name it.

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