That sounds awful Stripey . I suppose the botox has to be worth a try.
DH hasn't hurt himself ( that he can remember), that's the weird thing, he's had pain for over a year now, first he had 6 months of physio, which gave him full mobility but didn't ease the pain, 12 weeks ago he had x-rays and he's now finally got an appt for an ultrasound scan, they say it could be an impingement or a rotator cuff tear but his constant symptoms don't really seem to fit either from what I've read, it doesn't matter if he rests it or uses it, the pain is always there, driving seems to worsen it and he drives almost 100 miles a day to and from work.
Painkillers have almost no effect and he even paid out a small fortune to have intensive chiro treatment when he was off sick for a fortnight, it seemed to help at first but now he thinks it was simply the fact that he felt like something was actually being done and the chiro was convinced it would sort him out.
My worst fear is that they won't find anything on the scan and he will continue on pain, he's absolutely had enough now because the pain never goes away.
I've got my fingers crossed that he will be fixed by CS injection or at worst case scenario, keyhole surgery, we're both just so angry that it's taking so long just for a diagnosis.
In your case, I thought that ADs were given for nerve pain, which doesn't respond well to normal painkillers?
I hope you get some respite from the pain very soon, it's a miserable existence to be in constant pain, DH has even stepped down from his stressful and demanding job into something less so, he no longer has the patience or level of concentration needed and luckily his employers have been good enough to accomodate him, he can't carry on like this though, he feels like a failure.