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How can I get my mum treated at a different hospital (please)

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BelleDeChocolateFluffyBunny · 21/04/2010 20:19

She was admitted to a rather crap hospital in October with a cyst on her kidney, to cut a long story short, she was discharged with an infection induced dementia and had a fall at home which resulted in her fracturing her femur. She had to undergo an operate to put a nail/pins and a plate in her leg whilst she was awake (local and spinal block) as she's an anaesthetic risk due to other health problems. She spent a month in the same hospital before being transferred to a local hospital where they found she had bed sores. The local hospital have made a complaint, we have instructed a solicitor as the care that she recieved in the first hospital was negligent. She was discharged from the first hospital with no follow up arrangements to review her leg, one was sent out to her a couple of months later, this was cancelled because of the snow, when she tried to rearrange she was told that she didn't need a follow up appointment but under my advice she insisted as she had not had any follow up x-rays to ensure the bone was healing. She had an appointment today (6 months after her operation), they finally got around to taking an x-ray and the pins have moved. She's been told that she needs further surgery to remove the plates, pins and nail as it would cause hip problems if it were to stay in.
Given all the problems that she has had with the hospital is she within her right to be treated somewhere else, if so how can she do this?

TIA

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BelleDeChocolateFluffyBunny · 21/04/2010 20:20

I did make paragraphs, they have vanished though

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ButterPie · 21/04/2010 20:22

I don't know for sure, but isn't there something called "choose and book"?

LostArtOfKeepingASecret · 21/04/2010 20:28

Could you talk to her GP?

BelleDeChocolateFluffyBunny · 21/04/2010 20:29

Yes but if she's already being treated at the hospital that has reciently been in the media for neglecting patients, she's already technically got a hospital. It matters to us that she was neglected there, she fell out of bed after the nursing staff left the side of the bed down, she was overmedicated, she has previously been left to wet herself because the nursing staff forgot to get her a commode, she's developed bed sores, they didn't check her weight (she's got heart failure so this is important), they didn't even take her temperature. I don't want my mother treated here.

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jybay · 21/04/2010 20:42

As a GP, I'd have no problem at all with referring your mother to another hospital. I wouldn't want my own mother treated in the way you describe, so I don't see why anyone else's should have to put up with it.

Unless there are practical obstacles (e.g. no other hospital for miles around that does orthopaedics), I can't see any GP having a problem with this.

Marjoriew · 21/04/2010 20:48

Last time I went into the local hospital for an exploratory op.
The nurse argued with me that I could have my breakfast when it distinctly stated at the head of my bed that I was 'Nil by Mouth.

The wrong name was written on my wrist band.

On the ward round the nurse insisted on telling me that I was diabetic and that she had to give me my insulin! I am not and never have been diabetic.

I have cataracts in both eyes, and I have asked my GP to refer me to another trust hospital as I do not wish to be treated at the local hospital.

BelleDeChocolateFluffyBunny · 21/04/2010 20:51

She was sent home with someone's discharge sheet aswell.

How stressful for you Marj It puts you off being ill.

I'll tell her to contact her GP and ask to be treated elsewhere, she doesn't tend to listen to me alot though. It's all in the hands of a solicitor now.

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