Hi all - I have uterus prolapse of second to third degree, only recently diagnosed. I'm young, slim and my baby was average weight. Still I got uterus prolapse courtesy of the NHS, that will go to great lengths not to do a Cesarean, not matter for how long you are in labour. Anyway, I've been reading your posts, and thought I'd share what I've learnt over the last 6 weeks, as I did quite a bit of Internet searching and consulted a number of especialists both in person and by e-mail.
There are 4 types of prolapse: uterus, vaginal, bladder and rectum. They can happen alone or combined, and there are different degrees.
All I can talk about is uterus prolapse, which is what concerns me.
First, removing the uterus is not a good option at any age - when the uterus is removed the whole geometry changes and you are very likely to get bladder, vaginal or rectal prolapse, or a combination of those.
Second, there are two types of repair operation, one with mesh and one without mesh. The one with mesh tends to be more successful, but it is not widely available.
Now,this is the very important bit: the repair operation is best to have it done AFTER one has finished having children. There are very few cases around the world of women who had the repair with mesh and went on to have children. It CAN happen in theory, but because the operation is relatively new and uterus prolapse usually happens after the menopause (unless you are in the UK and give birth vaginally under the care of our lovely NHS) there are not many women who have had the operation and had babies afterwards.
It is not impossible though, and you can actually have a mesh repair and have a baby afterwards, as long as it is with a cesarean - after the repair the cervix cannot dilate and a baby can only be born with a planned cesarean.
I have been using a pessary for a few weeks now. It's ok, I would prefer to have my uterus in its place rather than down in my vagina being held by a ring though. However, as I want to have more babies I have decided to wait for the repair operation.
Also, recovery time is around 3 months and you can't lift anything heavier than 3 kg. My baby is 17 pounds now and I would not want not to be able to lift her.
You can remove the ring to have sex or have sex with the ring. I don't enjoy sex these days anyway - but I don't know if it's because of my prolapse or my inflamed episiotomy (which has not healed yet) or the thrush I also have :-)
Hope this helps.