Good evening all!
Right, DH's is on his right just under his ribs. Bit of a strange place but it was an emergency one put in Nov 08 and we're having problems. It was put in because of a year of being fobbed off by the GP saying it was IBS lose some weight and it will go. DH ended up in hospital and almost died on me as he had 7ft of impacted lets use the word 'matter' in there because of the constipation and it had caused bad ulceration of the colon and then were told it was a tumour but then told it wasn't. It's now suspected Chron's but they are STILL not sure.
It's prolapsed and looks like a large Aubergine so it is pushing the maxi bags off. Then we have the leakage. Its 100mm wide and pretty much that in height(oval shaped) and we're sticking the flange down with the hydro colloid strips but because of the prolapse it leaks alot and the output is often the diahorrors so leaks under the flange. We've been using DS's Sudocrem on the burnt skin and it has helped but the flange is then being re-stuck on the skin. DH does leave the bag off for the day or night sometimes(we just cover it in the swab/wipes that we get) as luckily it doesn't seem to poop much at night.
Please can you suggest ways to firm the output up a bit, reduce the amount of diahorrors DH gets and help with the skin burn?
The Stoma nurse does not return any of DH's calls and even though the reversal/re-sect op is elective the surgeon won't perform it until about 5 stone is lost but, due to the position of the Ileostomy we have been told by someone else that weight loss will be a problem as its positioning will affect his metabolism.
Long post I know but you lot have ridiculous amounts of experience on everything.
Thank you so much.