I did not find the actual injection painful, arm got sore a couple of hours later and was sore enough to wake me everytime I tried to turn in bed that night . Discomfort went away in next couple of days. I did not bother with painkillers, but regretted that when DS2 bumped into my arm quite hard, ouch!
Lisa, the main issue is likely to be your DH White cell count, if low he is not very protected against infection. Could you not seek adivce from his oncologist or whoever is looking after his cancer treatment? Step away from Google - you know it won't help .
Personally, accepting that is it unlikely that the government is trying to finish off the entire nation , I feel that in principle Influenza vaccines are well and truly tested. New ones are deveopled every year for the changing seasonal flu viruses, the States gave several million doses of H1N5 vaccines with few serious problems in the past. Normal flu vacc does not give protection against H1N1.
Get some RL advice by a medical persion you trust.
I asked my obstetric consultant (particularly as I have low white cell count, long story, won't bore you with it) and he was honest enough to say that ultimately nobody knows, but certainly the risks are higher when pregnant and to have it.
At the end of the day, you are playing the odds: do you chance it and hope not to get Swine Flu at all, so no problem with complications; do you hope if you get flu you won't develop complications; or do you accept that the proven protection of the vaccine outweighs any potential risks?
Sorry, I am not very good at putting all this down in writing. Obviously I've made my decision.
Kitten, hope your DD can play her violin . Give her Nurofen/Paracetamol before she is due to go on?