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Citalopram anyone?

35 replies

BelleDameSansMerci · 18/11/2009 12:32

Hi. Have just reached end of long, long tether and finally realised cannot do "this" alone. Am guessing (from searching on here) that I won't be alone on the Citalopram (?spelling) but wondered what experiences others have had? Anything I really need to look out for? I'm not bf so no worries on that front. Thank you.

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teatotal · 11/12/2009 16:55

If you can spare 4 minutes PLEASE watch the video on youtube In Memory of the Roberts FAMILY. Oh so sad but it makes sense and it may be a wake up call for us.

Itsjustafleshwound · 11/12/2009 17:43

I started Citalopram this month - it made me nauseous at first and a bit dreamy. I don't see any problems taking ADs - if they can help you through a bad patch and it has alleviated my anxiety. It isn't a forever fix and I will review things with my GP when I think I can cope with things ...

Good luck !

Nowtheres4 · 11/12/2009 17:56

i've been on citalopram for about 18 months now and it makes life easier, makes my childrens lives nicer too.
I sleep so much better now, no more lying awake until 3-4 a.m and just thinking about everything, but nothign at the same time. I gave up work as i was so bad that i couldn;t function.
i went up to 60mg a day at my worst but have a 3 month old and am on 30mg a day the benefits for me outweigh the risks.
citalopram has been a life saver and i am sure it has for many other people out there.
i don;t think watching videos on youtube is of any help to anyone askign for advice here and think its irresponsible of the poster to highlight them, people with depression often feel guilty already for being depressed and for feeling that they are harming their families, i don;t feel that they need to be made to feel worse to watch suicide victims families grieving.

Joolsiam · 11/12/2009 20:45

I finally went to the GP for help after struggling to come to terms with recurrent miscarriage and spiralling further and further into depression to the extent that I was struggling to motivate myself to get out of bed in the morning and terrified of losing my job as I was completely incapable of concentrating or doing anything productive.

Have been on Citalopram for 2 weeks now (20mg) and it feels like a veil has been lifted on the world and I can see clearly again. I'm more relaxed and even caught myself smiling and laughing recently - and sat down to read a book for the first time in months.

I was told to take the tablets at night so I could sleep through the side-effects - trouble is one of the side-effects is insomnia and I was wide awake from 2.30am to 5am every night. Now I take the tablets at tea time, sleep through and just put up with mild nausea.

Without the drugs, I think I'd have fallen into a black hole of depression that I couldn't climb out of. I did try to pull myself out of it, but it became more and more difficult. There just comes a time when you need a bit of help, just to break the vicious circle and regain some control.

I was on these tablets once before, 7 years ago after being made redundant. They helped then and I came off them after around 6 months. I plan to do the same again.

Some people have been quite patronising in their assertion that I shouldn't need drugs and I should beat this on my own - not helpful and just shows how little they understand about depression.

Snowybear · 08/01/2010 08:44

I was diagnosed with depression this December by accident when I was trying to get an appointment with my Onocologist to check cancer i had as a teen had not returned.

I got in such a state at the reception desk that was given a councellng session there and then (not at the desk I hasten to add) When we ended what I thought was just TLC over a cuppa I was told very kindly and gently that that I was suffering from depression.

As an aside last year when I asked Gp for help after a short spell in hospital due to horrid respitory problems (which have reoccurred again this year) I was sent for Mental Health assessment and given list of different types of councelling CBT etc and told to go and 'pick one'. Decided there and then that if I had depression surely I would have been given better advice/guidance therefore must be ok, pulled self together and got on with my lovely busy life.

Back to Dec 09 went to see GP who prescribed Citalopram (takes 3 weeks to work) and Diazepam for immediate effect. Took as prescribed but next day ended up having what my husband, who came home and found me, described as a 'nervous breakdown'. Taken off Citalopram which was most likely cause (I only took two doses). Stayed on Diazapam 2mg but visiting GP on day of 'going mad' said if i was his patient would increase to 5mg x3 daily. So Hubby and I increased dose to 3mg x3 daily as I was getting increasingly anxious. Think we did that for one day and the result was terrible sickness etc etc.
Decided to stop everything as was scared all making me worse, affecting marriage/family/ Christmas etc etc. Another GP gave me Mitazapine but too scared to take it.

Xmas day after sitting on the floor in the corridor at local hospital crying I was taken to the OOH (out of hours)Dr who was lovely. I asked to try Diazapam (1mg) and 30 mins later another (1mg) felt drunk and very happy. Have been taking 2mg x3 daily ever since. No longer feel drunk and happy but doing ok. Waiting for appt with Psychiatrist to help prescribe anti depressants but no appt yet. Have lovely Macmillan Clinical Psychologist. Also find meditation, listening to music through headphones (but not sad lyrics of which there are so many I had no idea!), writing lists etc, giving my little one cuddles, the kindness of friends and family (but not everybody understands) and watching Gavin & Stacey, Faulty Towers and Kirsty Allsops Christmas programmes which I recorded are my salvation. Never did make the salt dough decorations or the christmas crackers from the show but guess there is always next year...

I have no medical training (although with hind sight you need to inform yourself on what you are taking and poss side effects) this is just my personal experience for what it is worth. Biggest upset is that this has all caused my wonderful marriage to hit rock bottom and I am very angry...need to do some anger management now I suppose. Forgot most important thing no return of cancer and very unlikely now which is fab!!!!

arionater · 08/01/2010 09:52

BelleDameSansMerci - Citalopram is very widely prescribed and is I think considered the "mildest" of the antidepressants - that is, least likely to cause serious side effects, and best tolerated; as this post demonstrates, lots and lots of people have used it and felt very much better.

The standard advice is that you should give it a few weeks as it takes most people a while before they feel the effects.

So it will almost certainly be fine, and may help you a lot (though I think it's a good idea to take up the counselling or therapy too to tackle the underlying causes of the depression).

Occasionally, however, people react badly to even small doses of SSRIs. I had a (very rare!) reaction. A couple of years ago I had been quite seriously depressed for much too long without getting help, and eventually agreed to try taking something; I was prescribed just 10mg of citalopram (20mg is a more usual starting dose) as I was nervous about it. I took the first dose at about 6pm one evening and by 10pm I was manic (very very "high", unable to sleep at all without feeling tired, shaking, unable to stop talking - odd when alone!). I also became very anxious, and my heart rate/shaking was so bad that the GP thought I had an acute thyroid problem. Mania induced by antidepressants is very rare, especially if you have no prior history of manic depression/bipolar problems, but it does happen, and it's worth being aware of it because not all GPs are very well informed and it is a very serious side-effect if it does occur. I only ever took two pills, but I had to take sedatives and anti-anxiety medication for many weeks, and it took more than six months for the effects to resolve completely. As my GP had never seen a reaction like this I was referred to a senior psychiatrist, who rubbed his hands in glee at this excitingly rare reaction (!), but said that he does see it from time to time. It's probable that I am one of those rare people who had never had a manic episode but had a "tendency" that way and so was 'flipped' by the drug. Sometimes this happens to people after weeks or months on an antidepressant - it's particularly unusual for it to happen so fast.

Please realise that this is very, very unlikely to happen to you. But if you have ever in the past had periods of being almost "too" up - very busy, starting lots and lots of projects, perhaps a bit reckless and hard to keep up with - before or after times when you were down, then you should mention that to your GP. Similarly, a range of side effects including (obviously!) improved mood are normal with ssris, but if your mood changes suddenly or very dramatically you should tell your GP.

But really I am only relating this for the sake of completeness. It is very unlikely to happen and it is much much more likely that you'll feel a lot better.

BelleDameSansMerci · 09/01/2010 22:41

Thank you. I'm sorry I've not responded to the later threads here - I thought the thread had sort of petered out.

I've been taking them for a month now and things are much better. I'm much less anxious. I have a situation going on right now that would normally have me in tears and waking up in cold sweats but I know I can cope (which is much more me as I used to be than the worrying would be).

I did have some dizziness to start with and I have noticed a loss of appetite but I regard this as a good thing.

ADs absolutely do not cure anything but they help me to cope which helps me to cure my issues, I think.

Snowybear - how are you now? Really would like to know.

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echick · 22/02/2010 10:08

Hello,

As I write this I can't stop the tears. I have suffered from anxiety and depression for a number of years and have been on Citalopram which has always worked for me. I came off in August as we wanted to try for a baby and was worried about the effects, however the usual pattern happened again and 2 months later I went completely down hill, so I had to go back on them at 20mg and the doc said It's best I stay on them if the benefits outweigh the negatives. I was back to my 'normal' self again in January.

Last Thursday I found out I was two weeks pregnant and at first I was elated, however, then suddenly went completely downhill and the anxiety and depression started again. I just don't understand how something so lovely could trigger it. I feel so desperate and alone, although my OH is so supportive. The doc said I may have to go up to 30mg..I am just so worried all this crying, panicking and stressing will harm the baby...will this feeling ever go? I just want to feel happy.

Sorry for such a long post

BirdFromDaNorf · 06/04/2010 16:44

I'm just starting it today. Am interested to see if anyone wants to keep this going please?

echick - hope you are ok. And that all is working out for you.

Hope people want to keep in touch. Am starting on 20mg a day. Will take it at night as other people have mentionned and see where I get to.

Bananaketchup · 06/04/2010 19:37

Bird, come over to the mental health topic. I'm on a thread about coming off Citalopram but there seem to be a lot of us taking it so there are bound to be more starting it like you. Good luck.

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