meh, don't be offended, i'm just used to fairly robust debate. your second paragraph is precisely an example of what i am talking about. a vague anecdote with no real evidence behind it masquerading as data, complete with a rather dubious assumption about something that hasn't happened.
if you want a counter anecdote, my two sons have been vaccinated with everything offered, as have i and my other half. none of us have ever seen a paediatrician either. this proves nothing, just like your anecdote. my 3rd will have exactly the same when he is offered them.
if you want more anecdotes, in my work i see lots of people over 50 blind in one eye because of measles. none that i can remember under 50. i wonder why that might be?
the thing is, people are really, really crap at evaluating small risks. it's just not something we have evolved to do because the big risks have historically been far more important. that's why we need scientific data to properly evaluate the relative risks of things like childhood diseases and vaccines. and don't think for a second that the data isn't in yet. it's in and it's conclusively in favour of one of the most successful medical interventions of the last 200 years, as measured by the number of children who aren't dead.
the reason this irritates me so much is that those who come on here to persuade others not to vaccinate are basically increasing the risk of other peoples' children dying, not just their own. someone's unvaccinated 3 year old could give my pre vaccination child measles and if i'm really unlucky kill him, and that really pisses me off.