Should we ever panic?
I trained as a climber for 9 years. Panic and fear are normal and you accept them as such, but use it positively, or your career was going to be short and was most definitely going to end in grave injury or fatality.
'Now there is always something to do, even in the worst of situations, if you only keep your wits about you.' - John Long
All of my children fell ill with swine flu, one by one, the last on the same day I fell ill myself.
Panic will not help you and never will.
I have PND and all manner of anxiety. I can't tell you how this ratcheted up my anxiety.
But what is the point in panic? Even when the girl I gave everything for just the idea of fell ill?
Cherish every day. Live every day to the fullest and be as sensible as you can.
The rest has to take care of itself.
I remember a cancer-sufferer, who was also a journo say, 'No one has their whole life ahead of them. What we all have is the rest of our lives to live and honor by living to the best we can.'
If these are the last few months I have with my children, then I don't want them to be full of anxiety and worry. I want them to be full of magic and shine and spark and glow.
So go there.