Big question- WHY were you not offered HRT when you had meno at that young age?
Have you not been offered any treatment? There are bone-building drugs such as Fosomax, but they do have sidde effects and I for one would be wary of taking them unless it was absolutely necessary.
anyone with premature meno should be on HRT unless there are strong reasons not to- and it is safe to stay on it until 50-ish- age of normal meno.
I have low bone density and was at the stage before osteop. last bone scan( I am a lot older than you but was not through the meno at the time)- I referred myself for the scan even though I had no risk factors except being small boned and light-weight!
I havenow started taking lots of steps to try to stop the rot and suggest you do the same.
*Stop smoking- you are killing yourself in every way!
*See your GP again, or ask for a referral to a GYNAE who knows about osteo and hormones etc etc. You really should be on HRT.
*contact the national OSteoporosis Society for advice and leaflets.
*take weight bearing exercise at least 3x a week - Jogging/walking/tennis etc) and do other resistance type exercises ( free weights or gym machines)
*Take a good calcium/magnesium/Vit D supplement such as Osteoguard.
*eat plenty of dark green vegs such as kale, borccoli, cabbage etc and other fruits and veg.
*Eat some dairy for calcium, but not too much.
I know all of this takes an effort, but having my bone scan gave me the shock of my life.
I know you are busy, but your health has to take priority.