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routine mammogram tomorrow - am a little anxious...

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MargaretMountford · 30/03/2009 14:48

pathetic of me, but I am feeling a bit nervous -never had one before...

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RubyrubyrubyRaven · 30/03/2009 14:50

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Habbibu · 30/03/2009 14:50

Oh! I just had to write a letter to an anxious person about mammograms as part of my OU course. What are you anxious about? I've never had one, so my knowledge is purely theoretical, but I might have some stuff to reassure you.

MargaretMountford · 30/03/2009 15:00

just the idea of undressing and being half naked and having my bosoms pressed between plates !! I feel the same about smears and get very nervous in advance...I expect most people do though. And of course the underlying fear of 'what if...' especially as a friend's breast cancer was discovered through a routine mammogram- which is obviously the point of them of course !

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MargaretMountford · 30/03/2009 15:15

yes, I know !! my SIL who has had many says it hurts her,but she has had breast cancer, so I imagine it was tender where her surgery was.

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Simnelbellavita · 30/03/2009 15:17

Hope it goes ok for you MM.

MargaretMountford · 30/03/2009 15:18

hey good Easter name bellavita ! and thank you ...I can't settle today because I'm nervous,so I haven't done anything useful.

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Simnelbellavita · 30/03/2009 15:21

Why thank you.. (I would be nervous too)

In fact, I hate been poked and prodded about.

Surely mning is useful?

MargaretMountford · 30/03/2009 15:22

yes, it is ! but I really should be drawing or thinking of work ideas !!

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Habbibu · 30/03/2009 16:41

It probably is a bit sore - depends on how sensitive your breasts are anyway, but the more they squash you, the lower the dose of radiation you get. I expect the nurses will be very good - waiting for these things is almost always much much worse than having them.

And the "what if" is always a bit worrying, but (a) catching breast cancer early is v. good, and leads to much better survival rates and (b) even amongst those called back for a second look, the chances of it being cancer are really small - can't remember the actual stats, but I was surprised at how small a number it was.

Stick to MN-ing today - work can wait. I found taking a book of sudoku puzzles really distracting when waiting for scans - used to keep one in my bag!

MargaretMountford · 30/03/2009 17:00

thank you - that is good and comforting advice !

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BlaDeBla · 30/03/2009 17:46

I had tiny boobs and I find it quite uncomfortable having what's left crushed. The discomfort is temporary and doesn't leave any bruising. I was told that about 90% of lumps and bumps are nothing to worry about. They can see quite a lot with a mammogram, and sometimes they do a scan.

Please don't worry about anything. As Habbibu said, it's far better to find anything wrong early. It may help to write down any questions you may want to ask.

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MargaretMountford · 30/03/2009 18:38

thanks all - you speak sense !

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Simnelbellavita · 31/03/2009 09:29

Thinking of you today MM

frostyfingers · 31/03/2009 09:31

Nothing to worry about - all part and parcel of being female. I've had several and they've all been fine, I just think about something else (usually a shopping list), while some stranger rootles about! Not especially painful, and for me, only for the few secondas that they were actually taking the piccy, nothing afterwards.

MargaretMountford · 31/03/2009 09:47

ah thanks !

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MargaretMountford · 31/03/2009 12:42

well it was ok - the nurse wasn't over friendly or cheery though...it was a bit uncomfortable being squashed between the plates but tolerable...thanks for advice and support

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Simnelbellavita · 31/03/2009 16:10

At least you can relax now

MargaretMountford · 31/03/2009 18:35

yep !

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