I have a dd aged 7 months, when she was born I had to have an emergency caesarean due to a failed induction (prostin for 5 days, then artificial rupture of membranes and Synotosinen (sp) drip for 12 hours).
Delivery was fine but I had a massive PPH, had to have a 10 litre blood transfusion and was under general anaesthetic for 9 hours and woke up in intensive care. It took me a long time to recover and my Dh had post traumatic stress I'm sure. He said it was the worst day of his life.
So, inevitably we are now thinking about having another baby (weirdos I know) and I was wondering if anyone else has had this experience and whether it repeated itself. I'm not sure I can go through that again and more to the point I don't want to put my Dh through it again. And of course I am thinking that maybe this time they won't be able to stop the bleeding and Dh will be left with 2 small children to look after and
no wife. And more to the point I'll be dead!!
Any advice gratefully received.