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Would you recommend Persona?

10 replies

Fionn · 10/04/2003 13:31

I've just come off the pill after about 20 years on and off and we're using condoms but a friend has just suggested using Persona. I'm a bit sceptical as another friend became pregnant whilst using it, which I don't want to run any risk of! I stayed on the pill for so long because I felt it was 100% reliable and I really don't want to become pregnant again. But I do like the idea of not having to use condoms when "infertile" and wondered if any of you had had any good or bad experiences of it.

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ItWasTraumatic · 10/04/2003 14:21

DO NOT use Persona unless you don't mind getting pregnant. In a previous relationship I used it (accurately) for a few months and got pregnant. My relationship broke up, I had a termination and now have to live every day with what I did - all because I didn't want to use condoms.
Please think carefully before buying one.

GeorginaA · 10/04/2003 14:25

I use Persona and am quite happy with it, but it's not the end of the world if I did become pregnant (in fact, I think it makes a nice little gadget to plan pregnancy with as it shows ovulation days nicely!!). I think if you absolutely musn't get pregnant then it isn't the contraceptive for you.

Furball · 10/04/2003 14:29

I think the Persona is alright if its OK if you DO become pregnant. If you definately DON't want to be pregnant again, I wouldn't run the risk.

There's also another thread here

Jimjams · 10/04/2003 14:29

Persona is excellent if you want to get pregnant (and this is actually what it was initially developed for)- ie if you want to know when you are most likely to conceive. It is a crap contraceptve though. Like many people I know someone who got pregnant whilst using it as a contraceptive (she didn't mind though). If pregnacy is definitely a no-no then I would steer clear of persona.

Furball · 10/04/2003 14:31

I highly recommend the Mirena Coil With the added bonus of no periods! What more can a girl ask for?

Batters · 10/04/2003 15:13

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Dannie · 11/04/2003 10:21

No, Persona most definitely does not work. I kind of knew this, but thought that because we hardly ever have sex, it wouldn't matter. But of course it only takes once... I'm now 12 weeks pregnant with #3 and haven't been able to bring myself to tell my boss or my mum yet, despite starting to get distinctly rotund.
The sticks also cost a fortune.

morocco · 11/04/2003 12:23

like everyone else - only if you want to get pregnant! but it does seem a bit perverse . . .
every single person I know who has used it as a contraceptive got pregnant and the only person I know who used it to try and get pregnant - didn't.

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Fionn · 11/04/2003 12:36

Well, I'm glad I asked! I've decided not to buy one based on all your comments. Sorry to hear about your experience Itwastraumatic. I don't like the idea of having a coil fitted. I don't actually mind condoms that much so will probably stick with them. The funny thing is, I came off the pill without really thinking about it - we hadn't been getting on well and hadn't had much need for contraception over the past couple of years, so last week I thought there's no point taking it anymore. After a long chat we were OK again, and since then my libido has definitely returned. I know the pill is supposed to reduce your libido but I never had that problem pre-children. So my main reason for staying off it now is that I don't wabt to lose my sex drive again!

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CAM · 15/04/2003 10:51

Dannie, many many congratulations on your pregnancy !!!!!

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