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A qualified nurse told me yesterday that the prognosis for my dad's illness is poor.

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StripeyKnickersSpottySocks · 25/02/2009 10:42

This isn't a nurse who's looking after my dad btw, but is someone with expereince of this rare Syndrome. My dad was in hospital for nearly 4 months with a mystery illness that the consultant always said he didn't know what it was.

Dad was discharged 2 weeks ago, consultant still hasn't told him what the illness was. But gives him a letetr for the GP saying its Cogan's Syndrome. It would have been nice if someone had thought to tell my dad.

Anyway its quite rare, GP never come across it before. I can't find much on Google. But yesterday a nurse I know said when she was a Paed nurse she knew 2 children who died of it and life expectancy is normally 10 years max from diagnosis, probably less in an older person who will be more suciptable to infections. She also said that dad won't get his mobility back and what limited mobility he has now will deterirate.

Do I tell him this 'cos noone else has? He's on about buying a house but if he isn't going to be able to walk in a few months time/years time I need to tell him not to?

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fryalot · 25/02/2009 10:46

oh gosh!

First of all, are you sure that nobody has told him all of this? Perhaps he knows but thinks he is protecting you by not "knowing" iykwim

Secondly, assuming that he deffo doesn't know any of this, I don't think I would mention it, no. This person, whilst obviously a nurse and qualified, doesn't have any knowledge at all of your dad's case and may have got her facts wrong.

I would perhaps think about going with your dad to the hospital/doc and mentioning it to the doc and asking whether what she says has any basis in truth as it applies to your dad's case.

sundew · 25/02/2009 10:50

Hi Stripey

However well intentioned I would not take too much to heart from the Nurse who spoke to you. I would ask for another meeting with the consultant - with both you and your Dad present and ask about the prognosis. Sometimes prognosis is very different when illness are diagnosed in children and adults. Also, speak to your GP again - they will have access to medical journals / books that may have the information in that you need.

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