I recently discovered that my dh has spent £300ish on food whilst out working in jan (works on mob fone masts all over country)
He has done this in the past but Iv sort of not checked the bank and Iv feel I dont want to be checking up on him.The bills are paid etc so I had no reason to worry.
Lifes too busy to be checking him all the time anyway!
I approached him about it and he decided by himself (no mention from me)that he would cut up his bank card and if we needed to pay for anything then he would transfer the money from his to mine and that way we would be more aware of what money is being spent on.He also agreed that he would take food(pack up) to work.
He has just returned from work.Dinner was almost ready.He sat down on laptop,stated how tired he was (gets up at 5ish most morns&returns 12 hrs later)&did some work then dived in the bath and then came down and ate his dinner with us all at the table.
I asked him what he had eaten today. He replied with a packet of crisps and a coffee!!
I suggested that that could be why he is feeling more tired and he agreed,he then proceeded to tell me that whilst driving on the motorway he had tunnel vision and that he went in to a glare and nearly dropped off &driving on the white line made him come round!!
I aske to to not carry on talking to me and refuses to listen to and said I am upset that he hadnt eaten all day and that he doesnt care about his health and I dont want to hear his stories regarding driving.
He stormed out &slammed the door and is now laying on the bed leaving me to clear dinner &put kids to bed.
Im really cross.