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Worrying about sick son - GPs useless - any paediatrician recommendations?

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bettylou · 02/04/2003 17:11

My eldest son (7.5) has been ill for nearly three weeks - started off with fever and cough, then just generally listless, pale, off food, irritable etc. Now these symptoms have been joined by bad headaches. He's just not himself as he's normally very lively and energetic and has never suffered from bad health (he's only been really ill once in his life before).

I've been to our GPs three times, but always get the same response - it's viral, give Calpol and plenty of fluids. I sincerely hope they're right, but they just don't seem to want to look any further - we're in and out within about two minutes flat. They rather grudgingly took some blood yesterday to run tests, so we'll see what they turn up.

But if he's not better early next week I want to bypass the GPs entirely and get him seen by a paediatrician. Could anyone recommend a good paediatrician in London, who's private so I could get in to see him/her quickly? I'd be extremely grateful for your input.

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JJ · 02/04/2003 18:47

Dr John Fysh at the Portland Consulting Rooms (across from the Portland). His telephone number is 020 7390 8282. If he doesn't have an appointment available, tell his secretary (Rona, I think- she's lovely) your situation and ask who else you might try. From my experience, the consultants there are all fine, but some better than others. Dr Fysh was one of the good ones.

Also, my sons' GP was wonderful (she's private). You might want to try her, if only because she's always available, which helps when kids are sick outside of working hours. (Dr Fysh isn't available all hours, although if your son is a patient, then you can always call the Portland.) Anyway, I loved her and can't imagine a better GP (she was my GP also). Her name is Dr Sophia Khalique and her telephone number is 020 7935 4357. She's on Wimpole St. Honestly, if I were you, I'd go to her. She would ring me whenever she knew my eldest was sick (it was always my eldest), just to check everything was going ok. Sigh. I miss her very much (we moved).

MABS · 02/04/2003 21:11

totally recommend Dr Warren Hyer @ Clementine Churchill Private hospital, Harrow 0208 872 3838.

Drove from Brighton a couple of weeks ago to see him with dd aged 8 (suffering terrible headaches). He has a lovely manner with children too, which i've found some don't. Good luck

robinw · 02/04/2003 22:11

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bettylou · 04/04/2003 15:27

JJ and Mabs - many thanks for your recommendations. Dr Fysh isn't available until 17 April but Dr Hyer has availability at the end of next week.

HOWEVER, ds1 seems to have really perked up in the past couple of days and is more like his normal self. His blood test results were meant to be in today, but of course have been delayed until Monday... So I'll keep a close eye on him over the weekend and see what the test results say on Monday. However, if he does go downhill again, I can get an outpatient appointment with a paediatrician at the Portland on the same day if I ring in the morning.

JJ - I also love the sound of the GP you mention. I've never heard and certainly never experienced one like that! Worth looking into.

Robinw - food allergy is another possibility I'll look into if there's no joy with conventional medicine.

Thanks again.

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donnie · 04/04/2003 15:49

Dr Gary Katz at the Garden hospital in Hendon London NW4 is very good; he saw our dd about eczema and was v. helpful. Haven't got the tel no to hand but they are online or in directory enquiries.

miffed1234 · 25/01/2022 23:18

Not someone I would recommend. See newspaper article re Dr Khalique.

'They kept asking me if I trusted them. My head was going a million miles per hour. It was at that point – as I realised later – that I had lost my head.' In fact, Niall was being driven to a doctor in Palma, the Majorcan capital. But he says he wasn't given any treatment and was returned to the set.

With no ITV doctor on site, the production team contacted Harley Street doctor Sophia Khalique in London, who then worked for the show. It was at this point he was given Xanax for his anxiety.

Next, Niall's mother Maureen was phoned by Love Island's producers, who told her they had organised a plane ticket and that she must fly immediately to Majorca.

They explained that her son was acting in a peculiar manner but said they did not feel able to divulge any more.

She says they told her it had to remain a secret because they didn't want the public to know what was happening with her son, whose disappearance from the show was already making headlines.

From the home she still shares with Niall in Coventry, Maureen takes up the story: 'When I got to Niall, he was a totally different son to the boy I knew before he went on to Love Island two weeks before. It was heartbreaking.'

At this point, ITV contacted Niall's GP and he, too, was asked to fly to Majorca. When he said that was impossible, Maureen says the production team decided to put Niall on a flight back to the UK, hiring a private jet to do so.

Once back in Britain, he was taken to the £1,000-a-night Nightingale psychiatric hospital in Central London, where ITV paid for his care.

With millions of Love Island viewers desperate to know why Niall had disappeared from the show, later, ITV staff, along with his mum – who was being put up in a hotel near the hospital – helped him issue a statement on his Instagram account.

It said: 'For far too long, I have suffered in silence and not acknowledged a fact about my life, which going into the villa has led me to accept. When I was young, I was diagnosed with Asperger syndrome, a fact that has never been shared outside of my family.'

The message included Niall's thanks to ITV for its help and support. Today, he says: 'I was told to talk about the aftercare ITV had given me. But there I was, sitting in a psychiatric hospital.'

He adds: 'Now, it all feels like such a cover-up.'

He spent two weeks in hospital at ITV's cost before going home. However, his mother then struggled to find him a local psychiatric doctor and says she was given little help by ITV to find one.

'Niall was so depressed,' she says. 'He'd sit in the garden just staring. I would be scared every time I went into his bedroom as I didn't know what I would find in there. He had a year of hell.'

Niall says he regressed and became 'childlike' – watching only Harry Potter movies and The Lord Of The Rings. In December that year, he felt strong enough to talk publicly about his experience and agreed to appear on ITV's Loose Women chat show.

He says he was fully aware that ITV bosses would prefer him to tell viewers that he had been given supportive and proper aftercare following his withdrawal from the Love Island villa.

Still deeply stressed by the whole experience, he and his mother requested a meeting with senior ITV staff, including Richard Cowles, Love Island boss and director of entertainment at ITV Studios. He also wanted a meeting with Dr Khalique.

'My mum asked them if they understood what they had done to me. I also asked why I hadn't been invited for the Christmas reunion special with all the other contestants. One of the producers replied, 'It's our show and we can invite who we want.' '

When Niall told Dr Khalique how stressed he had been at being made to do things in front of the cameras that he hadn't want to do, he claims she replied: 'It is a TV show. It's a TV show you had seen before and TV shows are made to entertain people, right, and they decide who you are going to be with.'

Upset by this meeting, Niall submitted an official request to ITV in the hope of finding out what the production team had said about him in private. ITV's reply to this 'data access report request' revealed that on the sixth day in the Love Island villa, they had become so concerned about Niall that Dr Khalique wrote to a psychologist called Marcie Ferros and three producers to say they should ensure he was evicted at the next opportunity – two days later. (So much, incidentally, for evictions being solely the choice of viewers.)

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Dr Khalique had written: 'Please send me anything you want me to look at if he does not settle in the next 24 hours he is probably better out a there will risk him becoming full blown manic [sic]… Hopefully this can be done at the next boy exit (Tuesday?)'

After Niall left the villa, there were widespread concerns that someone with autism should have been exposed to the ridicule and sexual rejection that is all part of Love Island.

Since December 2018, Niall says he's heard from ITV just twice – when 2017 contestant Mike Thalassitis took his life in March 2019, and after Caroline Flack's death. He felt it was another exercise in 'damage limitation'.

Niall's story will not be included in the raunchy clips from previous shows that will undoubtedly herald the beginning of this year's series of Love Island. But every contestant should heed his advice.

'The production team forget they are dealing with real people with real feelings,' he says.

'It shouldn't be treated as a human zoo just to boost viewing figures and to make money.'

Last night, an ITV spokesman said: 'We fully supported Niall during and after he left Love Island and in line with his and his family's wishes. Our medical suppliers are contracted to look after the health and wellbeing of our Islanders. They have no input into the editorial side of the show.

'All Islanders are free to make their own decisions regarding who they couple up with and the public vote or format decides who leaves the island, not producers.'

Whattochoosenow · 25/01/2022 23:22

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