Sorry to hear about your DH lissielou.
I was eventually diagnosed with RA properly when I was refered to a consultant rhematologist following a flare up after the birth of my daughter nearly 2 years ago when I was 28. Before that the GP spent a few years dolling out painkillers and losing test results.
RA is mainly in my wrists, but sometimes also have pain in feet, knees and fingers.
I now take methotrexate, which definitely improved my symptoms although they have stopped the stiffness in my wrists entirely, so she's recently started me on sulphazelazine too which seems to be helping. I'm on blood tests every two weeks at the moment due to the new medication, not much fun, but good to know that they're looking out for nasties.
Hate the idea of taking all these pills as some of them are quite nasty. I found that methotrexate made me particularly vunerable to catching infections - not good when you have a little one in nursery! - so I had coughs, colds and sore throats pretty much all winter.
That said, my RA is definitely much better and on the whole I'm virtually pain free. Sometimes a bit stiff in the mornings, but nothing that stops me leading a normal, busy life.