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ok so i had quite a bad car crash yesterday. anything i should look out for in dds who seem ok?

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nowwearefour · 26/06/2008 20:39

dd2 did scream an awful lot each time we tried to settle her to sleep last night but was fine when we cuddled her. i assume some kind of shock? both seem ok today physically i just wondered what i should be aware of. Car seats worked a treat thank goodness. air bags blew which scared dd1 she keeps on talking about the balloons.....

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whomovedmychocolate · 26/06/2008 20:42

Well obviously you need new car seats....

Did you go to hospital? Were there any injuries? If not just watchful waiting should be okay.

Glad you are all all right. It's bloody scarey when the airbags go off isn't it? And the smell of cordite - it took me a week to get it out my hair!

ComeOVeneer · 26/06/2008 20:42

Night terrors.

After our car incident a few years back dd was given the all clear physically/medically, but then had a while of this. It is very frightening for the parents (they have no recollection of it) as they screm out, eyes wide open etc but aren't actually "there".

I will try and find some online info for you toread rather than type a load of stuff on here.

2point4kids · 26/06/2008 20:43

I would say just do what you are doing as I am sure you are keeping a closer eye on any aches and pains than normal. Will probably be a bit of shock more than anything else, poor things.

Also, you probably already know this so sorry if it sounds patronising, but you will need to get new car seats and chuck yours out.

Hope you are all ok.

Hecate · 26/06/2008 20:43

I assume you went to the hospital and they checked you all over, so probably just scared. Did the hospital tell you things to look out for?

ComeOVeneer · 26/06/2008 20:45

Night terror explanation

nowwearefour · 26/06/2008 20:46

the hospital didnt look at little ones as they looked fine- no apparent injuries. yes of course to new car seats- but also a new car! thanks though it is good to get reassurance. course i am feeling bad as it was my fault (went into someone's bottom)

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ComeOVeneer · 26/06/2008 20:50

Don't hug or shake your child. Waking the child will only frighten him or her more.

Stay close to your child until he or she falls into a normal sleep again.

Turn on the lights and talk softly to soothe and assure the child that he or she is safe.

Watch to make sure your child doesn't do anything to harm him or herself, like falling out of bed.

Night terrors sometimes lead to sleep walking. If this occurs, guide your child
gently back to bed without waking him or her.

Keep the room safe in case of sleepwalking. Keep the floor free of dangerous obstructions.

Keep your child on a regular schedule of meal times, bed times and rising times.

Make sure the child goes to the bathroom before going to bed. Night terrors can sometimes cause bedwetting.

Night terrors often occur about the same time every night. Set the alarm and wake your child before the terror begins.

If the night terrors happen often or are particularly disturbing to you or your child, discuss the problem with your doctor.

Ask your doctor if he can prescribe any medication that might help.

If you believe the episodes may be caused by emotional problems or post-traumatic stress, talk it over with a psychiatrist or counsellor.

Hecate · 26/06/2008 20:53

The hospital didn't look at them? You mean they didn't examine them? They must have done, surely? You cannot see all possible injuries, a child in a car crash must need to be checked over.

nowwearefour · 26/06/2008 21:18

oh dear. they werent checked. the paramedic just glanced at them at the scene and said they look fine- i went to the hosp in the ambulance and when there they said 3 hour wait here so best to get the dds home to be looked after there. so dh took them home and i waited for my treatment. maybe i hould take them to the gp then?

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nowwearefour · 26/06/2008 21:18

comeo- thanks for v helpful information. could have done with that lat night! will bear in mind for tonight if it re-occurs

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deepbreath · 27/06/2008 11:24

A van driver shunted another car into the back of my car 3 years ago. Ds was nearly 3, and he seemed fine at the time (as did I, but that's a whole other story!) but he started screaming in pain later that day.

He had whiplash, and ended up having a type of post traumatic stress disorder. He wouldn't go in a car for a long time, re-played the crash over and over again with his toy cars, and had the night terrors described above. He started having toileting accidents too.

Please don't let this worry you, as younger dd was also in the car with us and she was perfectly fine. Ds is now also OK.

I have read somewhere that you are more likely to suffer an injury if you are crashed into, rather than you crashing into someone else because you know what is coming and brace yourself. Just be aware that whiplash and other injuries aren't always obvious on the day of the crash, it can take a day or two (as I discovered). Stock up on Calpol just in case. I hope that you're all OK.

bodiddly · 27/06/2008 11:29

Our car was rear-ended by a bus when ds was tiny and I took him to the dr with me when I went the next day. He said that it is very unusual for children to get whiplash etc as unlike adults they tend not to see the accident coming so don't tense up in expectation of the hit. My ds was fine but I had horrific whiplash. It sounds like your dd has had a bad scare more than anything else and is just a bit worried about being on her own. I would keep an eye on her and take her to the gp if it goes on too long just to be on the safe side.

nowwearefour · 27/06/2008 11:39

thanks everyone i appreciate the advice

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