StandingOnaCornerInWinslowArizona ·
04/03/2026 14:00
I am 53 in a few weeks and 8 years into Perimenopause so, in theory, I should be feeling on the warmer side of things during this stage of my life but it's quite the opposite.
I have always been a chilly person and I had put that down to years of being very low in iron stores. I had iron infusions and sorted out my heavy periods 3 years ago but I am still the same.
Obviously, it is much worse in Winter but I only ever feel warm during the heatwaves in Summer and then I flip to the opposite where I will feel so unwell as I can not seem to tolerate feeling very cold or very hot, there is no in-between for me.
But I don't know why I am like this? I move about and walk the dog every day, all of my blood tests always return as normal (thyroid, vitamin D, B12, Iron etc). I don't drink hot drinks as I have digestive issues and find warm fluids exacerbate those but I don't drink ice cold fluids either.
I go everywhere with a hot water bottle attached to me and not only does this ease my IBS and endometriosis issues but it keeps me from feeling miserably frozen. I wear many layers and socks etc from Autumn to Summer but I still never feel overly warm unless I am sitting right in front of my log burner or wrapped up in bed.
No one else I know feels this cold. Is it normal for some people to never feel warm no matter what they do?