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Diabetes despite bmi 18 and healthy eating

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Charcharm · 15/01/2026 15:59

Many of the women in my family - my late mum and grandmother included- develop type 2 diabetes in their 60s and 70s. What’s perhaps unusual is that they have all had bmi 17-18 with healthy eating habits. No sweet tooth whatsoever, not because of any particular efforts, but just naturally so. My mum didn’t enjoy sweets or baked goods and preferred fruit. Alcohol only a few times per year.

Yet they all develop out of control diabetes. I can only assume there is some powerful genetics at play?

I am now 50 and am wondering what I can do to prevent diabetes as all the advice I hear centers around making lifestyle choices, which didn’t help anyone in my family. It’s not just the diabetes, vascular dementia followed the diabetes diagnosis within ten to fifteen years in all cases. It was horrific and I don’t want to put my children through anything like that if I can help it.

My gp has no time to discuss any of this, I get the same old advice about watching what I eat etc, so I thought I’d ask here. If anyone has any knowledge to share I’d be so grateful.

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Charcharm · 17/01/2026 10:13

ViciousCurrentBun · 16/01/2026 01:16

All my older siblings got type 2 diabetes, my Mother managed to not get it though was pre diabetic for ages. My siblings did all get overweight. As they are a lot older than me and I saw what happened one thing I also did was really cut down on alcohol. Your families BMI is actually just under the healthy range. I know it’s a bit of a blunt tool but I wonder if being very light is a contributing factor.

That’s interesting, so being (slightly) underweight might be negative in this context? I just checked and I’m 18.7 and I have a muffin top and am soft around the middle (bmi is lower end of healthy weight but as you point it’s a blunt tool), which signals to me that I probably have too high body fat at the moment so was planning on addressing this for health reasons. In an ideal world I should build muscle instead but it’s not realistic at the moment (dead tired due to anaemia and newly diagnosed heart condition etc etc)

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Charcharm · 17/01/2026 10:16

ShrankLastWinter · 15/01/2026 18:40

People have given really good advice about reducing your risk, especially by increasing muscle mass.

But since you are fairly likely to get it eventually, making sure that it is diagnosed quickly and managed well is really important. The new diabetes drugs (ozempic, Mounjaro) reduce dementia risk, so the good news is that there’s better and better treatment available now. But get on top of it quickly and well.

I was just reading about the ozempic-dementia connection! I’ll do anything to stave off this disease as it’s devastating for families

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Charcharm · 17/01/2026 10:19

To sum up

  • Get continuous glucose monitor
  • increase muscle mass
  • daily (?) cardio
  • watch diet/consider paleo or carnivore depending on what glucose monitoring shows
  • watch stress and sleep

Thanks everyone, will get started on actioning the above.

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MeridaBrave · 17/01/2026 10:27

I’d suggest weight lifting and eating a lot of protein. Try to significantly increase your muscle mass. HRT might help but only with weight training and adequate protein. I think the issue is that there is a genetic disposition and the low muscle mass (anyone with BMI that low has low muscle mass) is what’s contributing).

I might be tempted to have a dexa to look at muscle mass to have a baseline and to determine if it is low.

LoserWinner · 17/01/2026 10:28

Charcharm · 17/01/2026 10:07

Does walking count?

It depends how energetically you walk. A gentle stroll won’t help much, an hour’s brisk walking will raise your heart rate a bit.

MeridaBrave · 17/01/2026 10:29

Charcharm · 17/01/2026 10:07

Does walking count?

Walking is ok as cardio as long as you walk fast enough to get out of breath but to me the issue looks like it could be low muscle mass and cardio won’t help with that.

Charcharm · 17/01/2026 11:06

I was actually an elite athlete but that was obviously a while back. BMI was a smidge lower back then. Very lazy these days when it comes to exercise. Hate the gym, always have. But I think I know what to do now. This was a bit of a wake up call so thanks everyone

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Cazzovuoi · 17/01/2026 11:16

Read about Prof. Tim Noakes. He was an elite athlete who developed type 2 diabetes.

It’s all about the carbs. I eat keto/carnivore because I was prediabetic. I’ve eaten this way for 10 years and I’m very healthy.

Obesity is a protective mechanism that allows the conversion of excess glucose to fat. If you can’t get fat then the body has not much backup storage so you get diabetes.

MeridaBrave · 17/01/2026 11:39

Charcharm · 17/01/2026 11:06

I was actually an elite athlete but that was obviously a while back. BMI was a smidge lower back then. Very lazy these days when it comes to exercise. Hate the gym, always have. But I think I know what to do now. This was a bit of a wake up call so thanks everyone

What sport? Some require good levels of muscle mass and some less so. But that may put you at an advantage compared to other family members.

I recently took part in a research study as a weight lifter, and they used cyclists as the control group due to lower muscle mass (but still really fit.)

knitnerd90 · 17/01/2026 12:14

As a PP says, genetics. Lifestyle is only one factor.

it’s also possible though I think less likely at that age, that it wasn’t T2D but LADA. this is a slower moving kind of autoimmune diabetes (T1) that was historically misdiagnosed as T2 because of age at onset. Now that we can tell the difference via blood testing (antibodies and C-peptide tests) we know more. Rapid progression to insulin is a tip-off. If it’s LADA there’s no way to prevent it.

Charcharm · 21/01/2026 16:27

MeridaBrave · 17/01/2026 11:39

What sport? Some require good levels of muscle mass and some less so. But that may put you at an advantage compared to other family members.

I recently took part in a research study as a weight lifter, and they used cyclists as the control group due to lower muscle mass (but still really fit.)

Definitely less muscle than weightlifting in my sport:) was just thinking I had more muscle than the average person due to having done elite level sport, for a part of my life at least, but perhaps not enough to offset diabetes risk

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Charcharm · 21/01/2026 16:30

Cazzovuoi · 17/01/2026 11:16

Read about Prof. Tim Noakes. He was an elite athlete who developed type 2 diabetes.

It’s all about the carbs. I eat keto/carnivore because I was prediabetic. I’ve eaten this way for 10 years and I’m very healthy.

Obesity is a protective mechanism that allows the conversion of excess glucose to fat. If you can’t get fat then the body has not much backup storage so you get diabetes.

Thanks for the tip, will read up on him. Can I ask how strict carnivore you are? Jordan Peterson style with nothing but steak, salt and water? Or do you include the occasional low carb vegetable/dairy/lower carb fruit? How about occasional glass of wine or even deviating completely for meals out, celebrations and such?

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Slightyamusedandsilly · 21/01/2026 16:32

Charcharm · 17/01/2026 10:13

That’s interesting, so being (slightly) underweight might be negative in this context? I just checked and I’m 18.7 and I have a muffin top and am soft around the middle (bmi is lower end of healthy weight but as you point it’s a blunt tool), which signals to me that I probably have too high body fat at the moment so was planning on addressing this for health reasons. In an ideal world I should build muscle instead but it’s not realistic at the moment (dead tired due to anaemia and newly diagnosed heart condition etc etc)

Edited

Are you maybe a TOFI? Thin outside, fat inside.

TOFI and FOTI: Why Thinness Isn’t Always an Indicator for Health – Diets Debunked

Cazzovuoi · 22/01/2026 06:35

@Charcharm I rotate between keto and carnivore as needed. If I eat too much fibre I get bloating and discomfort so I go carnivore for a week or two. I always feel so much better on carnivore but strict is hard to do because there is little variety.

Eventually I start to add in low carb vegetables and some berries in season. I try to stick to low fibre vegetables but having the break from eating them always does me good.

Edited to add: I don’t deviate. I can’t because I cannot moderate high carb food. It spirals into carbs at every meal and in between. So as a carb addict I have to abstain. I do make myself keto cakes and biscuits as an occasional treat. DH made me a keto tiramisu for dessert at Christmas for example.

WarriorN · 22/01/2026 06:41

Charcharm · 15/01/2026 16:33

Good question re HRT. I have yet to look into it in more detail as I’m generally avoiding the whole issue as far as I can - I feel powerless to avoid what may be coming health wise as there are no effective treatments for dementia so I’m putting my head in the sand for now. It terrifies me. But maybe HRT can help delay things. And as dh keeps pointing out, perhaps I haven’t inherited these crappy genes after all, you never know

very limited and also mixed evidence for hrt and dementia.

a great deal of evidence for resistance training though. Also other exercises but the resistance training in particular.

I believe that building lean muscle mass also helps lower risk of type two diabetes. Some researchers are starting to see muscle as an endocrine organ as it needs carbs

Charcharm · 22/01/2026 13:56

That’s the south Asian phenotype isn’t it? Too much visceral fat? Might be the case for me today, who knows. I can’t think why else people in my family would develop diabetes. As I have mentioned before, the women with diabetes were all averse to sweets and treats to the point of never having any, and drank alcohol maybe once or twice per year. No white bread either. It’s still difficult for me to accept that an orange per day and some vegetables with dinner can lead to the accumulation of dangerous levels of visceral fat, which so far has led me to conclude that it doesn’t make any difference and that the diabetes and dementia will come no matter what I do. But who knows? Lots of good advice here which I’m looking into.

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Charcharm · 22/01/2026 13:57

WarriorN · 22/01/2026 06:41

very limited and also mixed evidence for hrt and dementia.

a great deal of evidence for resistance training though. Also other exercises but the resistance training in particular.

I believe that building lean muscle mass also helps lower risk of type two diabetes. Some researchers are starting to see muscle as an endocrine organ as it needs carbs

Very interesting. I’m going to look into that

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Charcharm · 22/01/2026 14:00

Cazzovuoi · 22/01/2026 06:35

@Charcharm I rotate between keto and carnivore as needed. If I eat too much fibre I get bloating and discomfort so I go carnivore for a week or two. I always feel so much better on carnivore but strict is hard to do because there is little variety.

Eventually I start to add in low carb vegetables and some berries in season. I try to stick to low fibre vegetables but having the break from eating them always does me good.

Edited to add: I don’t deviate. I can’t because I cannot moderate high carb food. It spirals into carbs at every meal and in between. So as a carb addict I have to abstain. I do make myself keto cakes and biscuits as an occasional treat. DH made me a keto tiramisu for dessert at Christmas for example.

Edited

The carnivore diet is socially difficult as well. Not exactly the dream dinner guest…

And it can be expensive (I don’t like eggs so that’s one affordable source of protein off the list).

I’m going to give it a try

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Ragamuffin8 · 22/01/2026 17:26

You could get a blood sugar testing kit. I did when I was diagnosed as pre diabetic.

I learnt that rice sends my sugar levels rocketing and stays there for days (unlike chocolate which was a quick spike for a few hours).

Also worth reading books like the Glucose Goddess and the Michael Moseley books.

upstairsdownstairscardboardbox · 22/01/2026 17:31

Read into epi genetics. I am in your position, also very slim. I work to control my blood sugar everyday and stopped eating fruit when it spiked me. I eat a lot of specific fibrous foods and fats to control my blood sugar. I test every year and check my levels. Good luck!

DorisTheFinkasaurus · 22/01/2026 17:34

There are a lot of helpful foods and supplements that can help regulate blood sugar (and are just good for us in general). Eating more foods like Jerusalem artichoke (preferably raw) and other foods high in inulin helps regulate blood sugar. If you're pre-diabetic, there are many foods that will support you in preventing diabetes. I suppose in reality, you are not pre-diabetic but sort of living as one in case you too develop older age diabetes. Given your family history, I would be doing the same as you... living preventatively.

And higher protein in your diet doesn't have to be too complex. Two poached eggs for lunch with whatever sides (salad, wholegrain toast, etc), is such an excellent source of quick, easy, high protein. I bought myself a nice egg poacher and this in itself got me eating much more protein than before. If you're a tea drinker, keep enjoying it (without the sugar perhaps). Different teas are very helpful for managing insulin spikes/blood sugar, etc.

Tigerbalmshark · 22/01/2026 17:40

MujeresLibres · 15/01/2026 19:43

Probably private for type 2, yes. I was tested on the NHS because I am late onset type 1 with some unusual features. Basically, my pancreas hung on with some insulin production capacity for a long time, so they wondered if I was a type 2 misdiagnosed. I'm not!

Not necessarily, I’ve known patients with type 2 but slim phenotype be tested in the NHS because they don’t “fit” the standard T2DM type - I have one patient with an insulin receptor mutation (meaning she is resistant to insulin despite being very young and slim). Her whole family have it. Genetic testing isn’t that expensive these days.

justtheotheronemrswembley · 22/01/2026 17:44

'Lifestyle choices' doesn't necessarily mean dietary ones or other poor lifestyle choices. Other factors at play with T2 include stress and getting enough sleep, and having family members who have developed it.

It is increasingly looking like there is a hereditary predisposition. Have a look on the Diabetes UK website.

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