Hi Ariel896,
I had the op 6 weeks ago, 250cc, under muscle, I was a flattened A cup, I was aiming for a C. I travelled abroad one week after the op…my surgeon reluctantly agreed to the travel but I’m a sensible person so I took care. At this stage I couldn’t lift a thing and was in a lot of pain. I travelled solo with the kids, and I had to have assistance (wheelchair!) at the airport as I couldn’t walk very far without awful muscle spasms. My children are 7 and 12, if they were younger then flying would have been a struggle. Codeine, paracetamol and Nurofen maxed out for the 1st week then reduced the codeine a lot due to awful constipation, ugh, but kept up the rest. I managed to decorate 2 Christmas trees (without stretching or raising arms above the shoulder) and wrap gifts, though I did as much pre-prep as possible. Week 2, 3 and 4 still a lot of pain and happy to not be going anywhere. Desperately missed having a hot bath! I flew again at the end of week 4. By week 5 started to feel a bit more normal and now week 6 I’m feeling good, still a bit twingey but not even paracetamol for the last few days. Having looked up lots of others’ experiences, I think my pain levels were very high comparatively. I can normally handle pain well, but this really was a lot. Christmas aside, I did nothing for the three weeks after that first flight, and I really needed that tine to recover. I hear some people feel fine after a week, so it just depends on the person.
My husband did all the cooking for the first month - I couldn’t lift a pan or chop veg. Even now a downward motion such as grating is not easy! Is it the beginning or the end of week three when your husband leaves? If the beginning I would say get help. If the end, you’ll get by depending on the age of your kids, but I would stock up your freezer so you don’t have to prep meals, and get someone else to clean your house (no mopping, hoovering etc). Driving is allowed but tricky. I drove a manual at the beginning of week 2 changing gears was madly painful. Also spinning the steering wheel. It’s little actions like that, that you normally wouldn’t even think about but that clearly use your chest muscles, that in my case would set my recovery back by a day or two and I would up the pain meds again.
So going from my experience, you’ll be fine as long as you don’t have to cook, clean, drive or lift anything! Could you employ a live in nanny/mother’s help for a couple of weeks? They would be able to cover all of the above.