I've never had a robust digestive system and have struggled with IBS for almost 30 years since my mid twenties following on from a period of stress at that time. I suppose stress does go straight to my gut. I suffer with upper (acid, dreadful daily nausea, pain, bloating) and lower (excessive gurgling, gas, pain, diarrhoea/constipation, urgency).
However, over the last 6 years it's been truly dreadful and despite many invasive tests via the hospital and trying endless self help including low fodmap diets, avoiding known triggers, taking various medications and supplements, exercising, gut directed hypnotherapy, listening to the Calm app daily, yoga etc etc etc, I am getting worse and not better in any way.
But I have also been under quite a bit of stress these last 6 years. I help care for my mum who has Alzheimer's, breast cancer and osteoporosis. It's relentless watching a loved one suffer like this and even with carers in just simply watching my mum fade away from this awful disease is beyond heartbreaking. Anticipatory grief really is a thing!
All has become so much worse over the last 10 days as mum had an awful fall in the garden and has fractured her neck. She has been in hospital since then and I visit every other day with my poor worn out dad (dsis does the other day).
My guts are in an awful state now. Constant nausea, a feeling as though a bowling ball is wedged in my stomach, gurgling, excessive movement, urgency etc. No matter how much relaxation I try I just can not get my digestive system into a calm and relaxed place.
It really is driving me insane and I swing from telling myself that it's stress to then stressing more as I then convince myself I have something very serious going on.
I honestly don't know how to control this. None of the strategies I've gained over the last 30 years are helping anymore. I don't know what to do.