Hi Yorkiegirl
You can have a myomectomy whereby they just remove the fibroids. It is still major surgery like a hysterectomy. In case you do possibly want to have more children.
Or there is a process called uterine atery embolization whereby you have the artery supplying the fibroids 'stopped' (sorry not very articulate tonight) which stops the supply of blood to them. Not offered by all health authorities. I considered whether I could have it done privately.
I think that hysterectomy is definitely the last resort esp at your age.
I am quite a bit older than you and decided not have a hysterectomy for my fibroids (I have several quite large fibroids) for all sorts of reasons. I was also anaemic due to the heavy periods. If you get your iron levels up then this may help make the periods less heavy.
The other things I did were to visit a homeopath who treated me and also advised me not to drink tea, coffee and alcohol during period as this increases bleeding. I do still have one cup of tea but do stick to the no alcohol and coffee while I have my period.
When they were first diagnosed I felt in a desperate position, I was drained and each month passed some enormous clots and had constant flooding. Sometimes not being able to leave the house.
But over time (2 years) things have improved (my general health has also improved) and my periods are now three/four days long still heavy but nothing like they were. I can go to work with confidence.
I also use a mooncup which I swear has shortened the length and heaviness of flow.
Please consider all the options as imo hysterectomy should be surgery of last resort. There is also a yahoo group for uterine fibroids. It is US based but still useful info.