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please advise dentist refuses to extract teeth

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luckygriff · 23/04/2025 10:49

Hi all I'm new here. I'm 53 and over the last 10 years developed stage 4 gum disease. Have had two teeth removed. Did everything the dentist suggested including seeing a specialist and spent a year seeing a hygienist till they upped the price and I could no longer afford it. There isn't anything I haven't tried to save my teeth but it hasn't worked 60% of my teeth are wobbly some more than others. I constantly suffers earache, sore throat pain in my teeth and gums, ulcers. Each tooth has gaps around it so I have to clean with special brushes and constantly worrying about getting food stuck in there. My teeth look and feel awful. I am embarressed to smile or breath around others due to bad breath. Been trying oil pulling not noticed a great improvement.
This constant barrage has had a severe affect on my mental health. I have asked my dentish to remove the 'wobbles' repeatedly over the years and she refuses to do so. I have begged and broken down in tears and she is dismissive. Tells me she can't in all good conscience remove them. I don't understand. To her, my teeth are in good condition my gums aren't. So I am stuck in a cycle of pain with no end in sight. I have one tooth in front that has been wobbly for three years, is very uncomfortable and smells but she wont remove it because of i's placement. Surely this is my choice??? Is it because I am NHS?? It''s together dental in colchester has anyone else had this problem. I don't know what to do and giving serious consideration to doing it myself.

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GG1986 · 23/04/2025 11:05

Go elsewhere and get a second opinion.

TatteredAndTorn · 28/04/2025 23:26

I'm sorry you are going through this, is it possible for you to see someone else? I know it's difficult at the moment and there are very limited NHS dentists so it may not be possible. But I agree, it should be up to you, and you shouldn't be left with wobbly, smelly teeth ffs! You could try to put in a complaint but I'm not sure I'd want someone doing dental work on me that I'd complained about!?!

If you can't find another NHS dentist, I think your only option is to try and find someone privately to pull the teeth then go back to the NHS dentist for dentures?

I really don't understand this seeming desperation to hang onto teeth regardless of the cost. Years ago before all this deep cleaning etc was available, if you had gum disease they'd just pull all your teeth and give you dentures. Not saying we should jump to this option, but if you've tried deep cleaning etc and it's just not working then at some point you do need to say, enough is enough, this isn't working.

Best of luck with it all and hope you get some resolution.

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