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Wiped out and falling asleep

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BBQHulaHoops · 08/03/2025 20:26

I fell asleep this afternoon. It happens quite frequently. I did a short dog walk and an hour or so of gardening (weeding, clearing etc), a bit of housework, but by 3pm I was wiped out and was ovehelmed by the need to sleep.

I am on HRT and perimenopausal and I think too sedentary, but this has been happening for a couple of years now. Sometimes excercise or proper exertion makes me feel this way too, though other times not at all. It feels different from physical tiredness - almost like I have been given a drug. I get a taste in my mouth and a very particular feeling of exhaustion. It doesn't affect my sleep at night at all though.

Am I just very unfit? I am currently about a stone overweight, is it hormones, are naps normal? I did wonder if it was an allergic response, and I am trying to work out if I have felt this way when hayfever hasn't been an issue. Could it be a thyroid issue? I know everyone will say go to GP, but I have had my bloods done recently and nothing has been flagged as problematic. My blood pressure and and blood sugar are fine and on the lower rather than higher side.

I know no one can diagnose, but any clues or any suggestions as to how to work out what's happening.

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glitterturd · 12/03/2025 20:54

I've just been put on a massive Vitamin D dose by an endocrinologist for tiredness. 4000 iu. I'm also supplementing with a high dose of magnesium. He said a multi vitamin doesn't cut it.

Flungwide · 12/03/2025 20:59

BBQHulaHoops · 12/03/2025 20:25

I don't know if it's useful to update, but I had a very good conversation with my gynaecologist today (new to me Dr) - she was incredibly clued up and basically said with a history of PMDD, issues on the pill and now on HRT she was pretty certain that I have got progesterone intolerance, she confirmed trying a few cycles of taking the Utrogestan vaginally and if that doesn't work she had a whole load of other things to try. So a) clever mumsnetters for spotting this b) I am an idiot and hadn't understood that the PMDD continues through peri ( and c) a Dr that listens, engages with your history and is thoughtful about solutions is a wonderful thing, I may love her. We did talk about poss other deficiencies but she didn't think I had enough other indicators apart from the tiredness.

Ahh.. I have PMDD and tried everything including chemical menopause.

Uttogestan vaginally didn't help for me, and I couldnt cope with coil insertion . I've ended up on the mini pill continuously, 2 a day.

It seems to work for me after years of horrendous symptoms. Not perfect but measurably better.

I guess we have to try so many things to find what's right for us as individuals.

I may have missed it but may I ask what your ferretin levels are? Sorry if I sound like a stuck record but GPs seem to think low levels are fine as they are wrongly classed as 'normal'.

Getting my levels up made a massive difference to my fatigue.

Best wishes

Janiie · 13/03/2025 17:30

'I may have missed it but may I ask what your ferretin levels are? Sorry if I sound like a stuck record but GPs seem to think low levels are fine as they are wrongly classed as 'normal'.

Gps don't pay much attention to ferritin levels because unless hb is affected and people are actually anaemic it doesn't always present problems. Everyone is different but I've had ferritin of 9 then 250 post treatment and felt exactly the same.

Glad that the Dr is supportive op, progesterone intolerance is often the cause of chronic fatigue and low mood. Good luck!

BBQHulaHoops · 13/03/2025 18:29

The simple answer to the ferritin question is I don't really know and I am trying to find out. They don't tend to give the details of blood test. - just a general it's fine/within normal range and you have to be quite clued up to interrogate. I am now trying to do this, and wll report back if I get anywhere.

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CorsicaDreaming · 13/03/2025 19:57

BBQHulaHoops · 12/03/2025 20:25

I don't know if it's useful to update, but I had a very good conversation with my gynaecologist today (new to me Dr) - she was incredibly clued up and basically said with a history of PMDD, issues on the pill and now on HRT she was pretty certain that I have got progesterone intolerance, she confirmed trying a few cycles of taking the Utrogestan vaginally and if that doesn't work she had a whole load of other things to try. So a) clever mumsnetters for spotting this b) I am an idiot and hadn't understood that the PMDD continues through peri ( and c) a Dr that listens, engages with your history and is thoughtful about solutions is a wonderful thing, I may love her. We did talk about poss other deficiencies but she didn't think I had enough other indicators apart from the tiredness.

Ah that’s really interesting- apparently in France it’s v common to use progesterone vaginally, it’s just us Brits who don’t! Which seems a bit crazy. Why process it through your whole system (with resulting side effects) when you can just put it where it’s actually needed direct?!

I call it “the French way” - which adds much needed glamour to the whole procedure…

Bristollocalknowledge · 13/03/2025 20:00

BBQHulaHoops · 13/03/2025 18:29

The simple answer to the ferritin question is I don't really know and I am trying to find out. They don't tend to give the details of blood test. - just a general it's fine/within normal range and you have to be quite clued up to interrogate. I am now trying to do this, and wll report back if I get anywhere.

Do you have the NHS app? Your results maybe in there.

BBQHulaHoops · 13/03/2025 20:24

@Bristollocalknowledge I have looked! Our surgery doesn't seem to upload anything useful - I just get alerts about parking restrictions!!

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BBQHulaHoops · 13/03/2025 20:28

@CorsicaDreaming lol at "the French way" I shall be using that. I did ask Dr - "do you, erm just stick it up there?" to which she laughed and said yes, but do it at night when you are lying down, which is logical I guess.

Actually - what about intercourse?

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Bristollocalknowledge · 13/03/2025 20:28

BBQHulaHoops · 13/03/2025 20:24

@Bristollocalknowledge I have looked! Our surgery doesn't seem to upload anything useful - I just get alerts about parking restrictions!!

That sounds really helpful of them 🙄

BBQHulaHoops · 13/03/2025 20:33

@Bristollocalknowledge well especially useful as I don't have a car!

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