I've searched through old threads so have learned a bit more, also a friend sent me a link about it and as I understood it, she is being referred for the hearing test in case she has got it but from what I've read I'm now wondering if the doctor meant that she has got glue ear and the hearing test is to see if it has affected her hearing. She said it was worrying that DD has lost some words.
My next question is about hearing, I know glue ear can affect children differently but is it possible for it to come and go and can it affect only how they hear their own voice? Its just that DD seems to understand what I say but just struggles speech wise. She often sort of acts things out to show me what she means. I know glue ear isn't terrible but my poor DD has so many medical issues that this feels very unfair and is worrying me a bit.