Hi all,
I hope this is okay to post here—I’m looking for advice from anyone who’s been through genetic testing because of family history. Bit long - sorry !
On my mum’s side, my family has a lot of cancer cases, and I’m starting to worry about what it might mean for me. Here’s the background:
- My great-grandmother had liver cancer.
- My grandmother had either cervical or ovarian cancer—she was diagnosed in her late 70s or early 80s, but she couldn’t have treatment because of her age.
- My aunt (my grandmother’s youngest daughter) died of ovarian cancer at just 46.
- Another aunt(middle daughter) had some sort of gastrointestinal cancer. We’re not in contact, so I don’t know all the details, but she’s alive and seems fine after treatment.
- My mum(oldest daughter) had gastrointestinal cancer, diagnosed late at 69. Her symptoms had been ignored for a long time, and by the time she was diagnosed, it was too late to identify the primary cancer or offer treatment.
Then there’s me. I’m 33, and while I don’t have any worrying symptoms right now, I do have confirmed endometriosis and a cyst (which was labeled “simple” during scans last year). Knowing the family history, especially with two cases of ovarian cancer (one at a young age), I can’t help but feel I might be at higher risk?
I’ve only recently been made aware of genetic testing on the NHS. I’ve never been offered any advice or testing, even though I mentioned my family history to my GP ages ago. I’m nervous about bringing it up again in case I get brushed off—especially because I’m still relatively young and screening is often aimed at older people.
So, I’m turning to this group for advice:
- If you’ve had genetic testing, how did you bring it up with your GP?
- Did you get referred easily, or did you have to push for it?
- Does anyone know if self-referral is an option for genetics services? I can't find definite answer online.
- And if you went private, what was the process like, and would you recommend it?
I’m ready to explore private testing if needed, but I want to make sure I’ve looked into everything available through the NHS first. I know genetic testing doesn’t mean I will definitely have the cancer on the future , but I’d like to know what I’m up against so I can take steps early if needed.
Any advice or experiences would mean a lot—thank you so much in advance! :)