I just wanted to post a positive experience.
I had mine in April 2024. I had a 3yo at the time and a demanding one at that. I put her in nursery full time for 2 weeks and my husband made plans with her on the weekend. Stocked the freezer with food before the op.
Yes, day by day there were some tough recovery days but pound the pain killers to the minute and it is so worth it. Eat whatever you can regularly.
It is December now and I have not been sick ONCE. I don't have to panic after being out or fear getting tonsillitis or pump antibiotics into my stomach regularly. Honestly, one of the best things I have ever done.
Anticipate mentally that there will be a bad day in recovery but you will also turn a corner completely randomly and it gets better.
I was very lucky not to have any complications.