After the miscarriage thread it would seem there are a few of us, which I would expect with the chance of having this disease, that have Hughes or something similar. I thought a place where we can share our experiences, swap injecting tips, ask questions and generally be a support to each other whether it is in pregnancy or just living with it.
I'll start by introducing myself and my disease.
I first got pregnant in Feb 05, I miscarried at 8 weeks with what was thought to be triplets. I was advised that I wouldn't get a period till my body was ready to start again and I could try again when ever we were ready. We got pregnant on my first cycle.
At 20 weeks I went into labour. A&E at a different hospital said it was a UTI and sent me home (I'm well aware of how dangerous a UTI is, that if they had followed procedure and got a gynaecologist or obstetrician to see me I wouldn't have been in the situation I was in next day). The next day I went to the theatre (long story!) there I collapsed and was taken to the hospital where I gave birth shortly after. My daughter (Lily-Hope) was born alive and died when she was three hours old. They hadn't worked on her because she was too young, they gave us the time as a family to hold her and be with her until she died.
I was approached the next day about a post mortem. I told them she would not have survived birth and lived for three hours at 20 weeks if there was something wrong with her. I said that I felt I was the problem and if there was something to know they would get their answers from effectively doing Lily-Hope's post-mortem on me! They said that was their thoughts and that they had to ask as it was my choice.
Over the next three months I had several lots of blood taken, 9-11 vials a time, some I joked looked like Tabasco bottles! When I was 5 weeks pregnant with Tink I had the final results. There were pages and pages of results, tropical diseases to STD's! Everything was negative until one of the very last things they tested for - Antiphospholipid Syndrome, I use Hughes Syndrome because it refers to Prof Hughes who has the best research on it, there is a drive to get it recognised across the board as it's proper name and it's easier to say.
I was started straight away on Aspirin, but had to fight for Heparin as they said my levels were too low for the Hughes to be a problem! It took me three "second" opinions to get someone to agree with me that it obviously was a problem or I wouldn't have lost Lily-Hope and we didn't want to not try everything and risk it happening again.
Tink came at 31 weeks, not because of the Hughes, but because of having lost two pregnancies early before. She has done really well since and I'm very proud of her.
I have since discovered I have Raynard's (which I've been trying to get them to admit for years) and TIA's. I'm also getting pins and needles in my arms and legs which is currently being tested. Of the random symptoms a lot of people get I get the fuzzy headache when not on Aspirin, I have a sensitivity to shop lights and car indicators and I have a rash over my cheeks like I've eaten something I'm allergic to. I also believe my weird form of dyslexia is connected.