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My partner gets mad when I say no to sex

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WorthyDeer · 25/11/2024 00:08

I really do love my partner, he is caring and everything but he always wants to have sex. If he is making moves and I tell him that I don't want to do anything, he will constantly keep trying. I then get angry because I shouldn't have to say it so many times. He then gets mad and say we barely do anything. He complains if he goes two days without. He always wants to have a second round, I say no because I just don't feel like it. He then says "We did it all the time and now you don't want to" It just really hurts because I feel like he is only thinking about himself. He sometimes just storms out of the room like a child and it usually ends up in an argument😪 It makes me upset tbh

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EssentiallyItsTrue · 25/11/2024 11:24

He sounds horrible. He isn't caring. No one who is caring would behave like that. Why would you stay with someone who gets angry about something like that.

Tatiepot · 25/11/2024 11:34

My XH was like that...and I can't tell you what a relief it is to be able to go to bed on my own, just to read my book, wearing what I want (my favourite, not remotely "sexy" nightwear was deemed irresistible, and I could never sleep naked even though I wanted to), and not have to fend off or give in to his pestering just to get some sleep.

If your boyfriend is like this now when you feel you have to give in every other night...it can only get worse. You might try talking to him about how it makes you feel, but it doesn't sound like he'd be able to think with what's between his ears...

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