Advice for autistic lady

[AmpleTealRobin]

Hey everyone I have Aspergers. I’m looking to go to a private dentist and get various treatments to my teeth. I’m not sure if I will need more treatments than I’m expecting as I haven’t been for my first appointment yet.

I’ve read all the reviews online and looked at the fee guide etc but I’m so worried about how to tell them that I’m not made of money and could I have clear plan of all the costs and will there be any extra charges. I’m not sure how to word this in a clear grownup way that doesn’t come across as panicky or rude?

Any suggestions on how to say this and bring up the prices would be amazing. Sorry if this seems a bit of a silly question.

Thank you 😀

I wrote a note for my dentist. It stated I was autistic and what I struggled with. He was absolutely fine with it.

Are you going for a check up, or is there something wrong that needs sorting out?

I think it would be ok to say that you're autistic and you'd like some help with ensuring you understand the procedures and the costs that will be incurred.
Maybe give a note to the receptionist or dental nurse if you don't feel comfortable saying it?

I’d like to think about all the treatment options you have present ed and could I please have a breakdown of costs for any proposed treatments before choosing how to proceed.

Absolutely what PPs have said. Book a check up and be clear that any additional work you'll need itemised in writing. You may not need anything done, you may need something now and some things to think about in the future that can be discussed again at next check up. No big decisions have to be made on the spot, get it in writing and look into it in your own time before booking any procedures. Do tell them you're asd, we can get more sensitive (to discomfort and/ or aenasthesia) the dentist can be more attuned if they know. Might even be worth looking for an asd friendly dentist, especially if you're paying private you want someone who's right.

Before my treatment plan started I had to meet with the practice manager who went through all of the financial costs and the timeline with me. This will be a really standard part of their process, so don't hesitate to ask them.