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Those who are slim - How do you stay slim over Xmas?

93 replies

sarahso · 20/11/2024 14:43

I've lost a good amount of weight this year, im not quite at my target yet and I'm DESPERATE not to pile a load back on next month. I have 2 x work Xmas dos, DH's work's Xmas do, friends night out, Christmas dinner, Boxing Day dinner.. probably more.

Does anyone have some tips to help gain less!?

OP posts:
TorroFerney · 20/11/2024 16:58

Hellohelga · 20/11/2024 16:08

For meals in restaurants I tend to have fish, as I like it and it’s a lower calorie choice and portion is not huge. Pudding is ice cream, or share something with DH. Lunch on that day with be light eg tuna salad.

For Christmas/ Boxing Day I have normal portion but no roast potatoes, as I don’t like them. Pudding is a normal portion of anything I like. Supper later will be a small snack eg cheese and crackers.

Between these big meals I have some good days. My go to good lunch is chicken/tuna salad with vinaigrette instead of mayo so no carbs at all. My go to good dinner is a smallish portion of anything with lots of veg/salad and not much carbs.

Don’t buy lots of goodies to minimise snacking.

I do this all year not just at Christmas. Lucky for me I love fish, salad and veg and don’t like roast pots. Snacks are my downfall though and need to be controlled.

I’ve just posted before I read this but yes I do similar.

bengalcat · 20/11/2024 16:59

I try and drop a few kg and up my exercise before so I can pig out

Sugarflub · 20/11/2024 17:00

I carry on eating well between meals out, only eat stuff I really genuinely want rather than picking or eating for the sake of it, try and remain active. To be honest a balanced diet is so much part of my life now that it doesn't feel like going without or whatever.

NeedToChangeName · 20/11/2024 17:06

I'll eat and drink more than normal on eg Christmas Day, but as a result, I'll not feel hungry on Boxing Day, so it all evens out in the end

PuddingAunt · 20/11/2024 17:15

i eat same amount as usual.
it's easy for me as i can't swallow another mouthful once I'm full.
I can't drink alcohol (which is highly calorific), I drink sparkling water instead.
I love dancing at the disco.
Obviously I love puddings, but only cute little delectable ones.

thatsawhopperthatlemon · 20/11/2024 17:18

Go easy on the carbs & alcohol, that would be my tip.

Mimilamore · 20/11/2024 17:26

Lost my sweet tooth after 41/2 years so chocolate holds no fear!! Might just get some quality chocolate though and eat sparingly.
Don't like cake, pudding or mince pies so can resist those...
Cheese will be my undoing and the wine to go with it!
I'll be extremely careful leading up to it and ditto after!
I have lost the urge to gorge myself on all the UHP stuff now and 41/2 stone lighter for giving it all up.

Mimilamore · 20/11/2024 17:29

Oh yes, dislike stollen and panetonne too but would dive head first into boozy trifle! I'll pace myself and do some extra long walks after ...

itsgettingweird · 20/11/2024 17:31

I think you stick to those events and enjoy them.

Avoid the temptation to eat all the Christmas crap in between (something I've just to master 😂🫣)

You've done extremely well and should be proud of yourself but don't punish your success by not enjoying the food for a few events.

peplepue · 20/11/2024 17:36

I try to reduce portions when I'm out by only eating half of what I'm given

BuddhaofSuburbia · 20/11/2024 17:42

Don’t eat mince pies, keep off the booze as much as possible. Don’t eat crisps and nuts. I’m just going to have a nice meal on Xmas day and that’s it . I don’t eat loads of chocolate and just won’t buy all that stuff.

Soupwithstring · 20/11/2024 17:42

It's obvious but just eat less.

I allow myself one or two mince pies across the season, one slice of Xmas cake, a bit of cheese on Xmas day and boxing day etc. I've already had two mince pies, I felt sick afterwards and they gave me a bad stomach because of the sulphites in the fruit, so that's put me off eating any more.

I don't eat sweet chocolate as it makes me feel sick, I stick to meat and veg and fish. Roast potatoes are never worth the calories and the full feeling after.

I don't stop exercising, make it a priority to get up and out v early on boxing day so it doesn't impact on the family.

If Xmas day brekkie is eggs benedict, I don't have the muffin and a tiny spoonful of sauce.

Tbf, I don't enjoy the feeling of gluttony so it's easy really!

I realise this sounds like one of those 'massive salad' posts, but honestly, it's up to you what goes in your body and how you react to a excess of food. No one will do it for you. Good luck and well done on the weight loss!

Münchner · 20/11/2024 17:45

Exercise more than you usually would (shouldn't be too hard when on holiday) and don't indulge on more than one vice at a time. Ie. Excess alcohol and light on food or excess food and light on alcohol.

Soupwithstring · 20/11/2024 17:45

Oh and don't be deluded that a few long walks will stop the weight gain. They make bugger all difference.

Track your calories and do some weights PLUS walks.

NotAScoobyDoo2 · 20/11/2024 17:51

I make excuses. "I ate my body weight in mince pies last night so I won't have that extra piece of cake now". If I know I'm having a big meal at lunchtime I'll eat light for breakfast and have a salad for dinner. Another good one is to only eat at mealtimes. Continual snacking really messes up my appetite. Keeping up exercise also helps to regulate exercise.

Autumnweddingguest · 20/11/2024 17:52

Stay active. Be the one who rushes to answer the door to visitors, carries their cases upstairs,, takes the dog for a walk, fetches stuff from the garage, puts up the lights and the tree. Be the one who suggests a frosty hill walk after lunch or a wander around the streets to look at the lights once the moon is up. Don't slump in front of the TV with a tin of Quality Street on your lap every night.

If the family want extra treats and snacks, buy ones they love that you hate. Nothing would induce me to eat salted caramel anything or cheese flavoured crisps, so if I stock up on those, I am safe.

Champagne and G&T with slimline tonic are low-ish calorie drinks.

Get yourself loads of non food seasonal treats - herbal or spiced bath oils/salts/bubbles, scented candles, beauty treatments, a couple of new outfits that really flatter your new shape.

Ask for fitness gear for Christmas presents - weights, trainers, yoga mats etc so you have an excuse to get out there and try them.

But enjoy the day. It's fine to indulge for a couple of days over Christmas. The problem is if that indulgence starts with advent.

IdaClair · 20/11/2024 17:53

Christmas is massively busy and I spend the whole season running around like a headless chicken. Work retail. When I have time off I’ll be hosting, cooking, cleaning, bedding changing, going out. But also I have some leave so I’ll be able to do longer hikes than normal, get out for some long runs.

I disagree with the above though, going out for long walks absolutely makes a difference to my metabolism. Why would several hours of exercise make bugger all difference? Or do we have a different definition of long walks?

LegoHouse274 · 20/11/2024 18:21

Mrsttcno1 · 20/11/2024 15:06

I honestly always just eat to my hunger, and I continue my usual exercise because I enjoy it. Yeah I may be 2/3 lb heavier come Jan 1st but that’s not genuine weight it’s just water weight from eating differently, you will not gain huge amounts of actual weight from a few days off plan.

Like my work do for example is on a Friday, I’ll have been just on my normal eating that week, normal exercising, it doesn’t matter what or how much I eat at that do I’m not putting any actual weight on. It’s one night. You have to eat roughly 3500 EXTRA calories to gain 1lb of fat, the odd day really doesn’t make a huge difference, the problem comes whereby people just let everything go for all of December because they have a few days or nights planned so sack it all off for the sake of those nights. If you just continue normal eating and exercising throughout then on those days or nights you can simply enjoy eating or drinking whatever you want knowing that actually there’s no real harm done.

Exactly this here too. I do deffo overindulge on the odd celebration day here or there but otherwise eat normally and it's not enough to put weight on. Also I find often with celebratory events the eating is later in the evening than I would normally eat at home, so it sort of evens out for me a bit as I often go longer without eating in the lead up to it that day than I would usually.

Fundays12 · 20/11/2024 18:25

BeachRide · 20/11/2024 15:44

It's not what you eat between Christmas and New Year that dictates your weight, it's what you eat between New Year and Christmas. Enjoy yourself 🙂

This is my motto.

Fundays12 · 20/11/2024 18:31

Loxiro · 20/11/2024 15:55

That’s all very well but I think the issue is the festive period is longer for a lot of people including the OP - assuming all the events they mentioned aren’t within one week.

My first Christmas party is December 2nd, and when I used to work in the office that’s when Christmas snacks and sweets would start to appear, not to mention all the supermarket offers popping up around then. So it’s easy enough to fall into the trap of getting into the Christmas eating mindset for the whole of December.

Id I just ate whatever I wanted from early December until say January 2nd that would be a month of overeating - which is more than enough time for me to put a stone.

I will enjoy myself for sure but not by overeating for several days or weeks.

Edited

I stick to the new year to Christmas theme of healthy eating but I do agree it's difficult as Christmas goes on so long. I find having minty chewing gum handy stops me eating lots of chocolate

c3pu · 20/11/2024 18:36

I get my weight down a few kilos in November, enjoy Christmas, then deal with it in January.

RickiRaccoon · 20/11/2024 18:40

I treat Christmas as Christmas Day and Boxing Day and don't indulge the whole of December. I give away treats we are gifted. I go for walks to keep motivated.

Teeheehee1579 · 20/11/2024 18:43

IdaClair · 20/11/2024 17:53

Christmas is massively busy and I spend the whole season running around like a headless chicken. Work retail. When I have time off I’ll be hosting, cooking, cleaning, bedding changing, going out. But also I have some leave so I’ll be able to do longer hikes than normal, get out for some long runs.

I disagree with the above though, going out for long walks absolutely makes a difference to my metabolism. Why would several hours of exercise make bugger all difference? Or do we have a different definition of long walks?

I agree that a long walk makes a difference but for me that would be 5 or 6 miles of power walk or brisk step with heart rate up. I think a lot of people poddle along at snail’s pace (when they could go faster) and think a mile or two shifts loads of calories (which it does not). Obviously anything (even a poddle) is better than nothing though!

Lampzade · 20/11/2024 18:45

I just don’t over eat.

Neurodiversitydoctor · 20/11/2024 18:45

I won't drink alcohol now until Christmas Eve, only homemade treats ( so I have to make them) soup for lunch at least 3 times a week and for dinner one night. I try to do daily yoga mon- fri and move ( a walk or a run) everyday.