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Weird feelings and panic attacks

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Zd24 · 17/11/2024 14:15

Hi just posting here looking for some advice or reassurance, I suffer with health aniexty so I’m actually worried to go to a doctor.

so it started a week and a half ago I started feeling very lightheaded only when I would walk outside and blurry vision, I have a 1 year old who won’t sleep so I’m very sleep deprivated, I am also very busy all the time and have 2 older children at school who also do lots of out of school clubs during the week and at weekends, I am a stay at home mum who does own my small business but I have had to completely slow that down the past few months because something had to give somewhere and my husband works so much so the house work and looking after the kids and taking the kids everywhere 99.9% of the time is all down to me. I’ve been under a lot of stress since my daughter’s birth a year ago, I had a 6 year age gap between my 2nd baby and my 1 year old and my oldest child is 9. She was planned but I suffered with mental health problems during my pregnancy, had severe morning sickness the entire 9 months and had a very difficult birth and a lot of blood loss and I didn’t rest properly at all, who can when you are on your 3rd child but I was running around doing everything because no one helped. I also started suffering with postpartum depression after the birth it was just a very hard time. I think this time around it has really took its toll on me having a newborn and 2 older children more than I imagined, I had my first 2 children 22 months apart and don’t remember it ever being this difficult. Anyway in August I felt lightheaded and went to the doctor who found out I have a slight iron deficiency anemia and sligh vitamin d deficiency. For the past few months I have regularly been taking the iron tablets but haven’t been taking the vitamin d, I am a Muslim woman who wears a scarf so I most often do have low vitamin d so as I’m not taking it it probably has got a lot worse now.

i started a week and a half ago feeling very light headed and blurred vision, as I said I am under so much stress, exhaustion and sleep deprived as the baby has been sleeping awfully for months now, she also won’t be put down at all during the day so on top of being sleep deprived I’m exhausted on top of everything else I’m doing. I was putting the lightheaded and blurry vision down to this and then yesterday I woke up with a buzzy feeling in my finger tips and I’ve never had this before, never in my life have I had a panic attack but I started hyperventilating and my heart started racing and I felt like this feeling was going over my entire body and felt like I was going to faint, it passed after about 30 minutes but it scared me so much, all day I continued to have this buzzy feeling in my hands it almost feels like I’ve touched something electric instead of pins and needles, I forced myself to take some rest because I’m so exhausted and started feeling better, only I woke up at 11.43 last night with the baby with the buzzy feeling still in my fingers and it sent me into the worst panic attack ever, I had to get up and come downstairs and my entire body was shaking and I couldn’t control it, my heart was racing so fast and I felt dizzy and like this buzzy feeling was all up my arms and in my legs, I was shaking and couldn’t stop it for over 1 hour and eventually started to calm down and after I felt very lightheaded, it did revenraully calm myself down but woke up this morning aching all over my body and aching in my chest as if I’ve pulled loads of muscles. I am genuinely very scared as it was such a bad panic attack, I still have this buzzy feeling in my hands today that when I’m busy I forget about but when I started focusing on it I end up in a. Panic attack, could this really all be down to sleep deprivation, stress and exhaustion? I am really scared and don’t want to have another panic attack like that ever again it was so scary and awful

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KeenOtter · 17/11/2024 17:39

I dont want this to go unanswered you must be feeling rubbish and worried.

Being tired stressed and sleep deprivation can make you feel horrendous. The things you have discussed could easily be caused by this.

I am no medic though!

It might be worth just popping back to the GP to have a repeat bloods done to check your levels are going up. The symptons could easily be anemia still.

Easy to say but try not to dwell on the panic feelings as panic loves panic.

I hope you can have a more chilled day and get people in to give you a bit of a rest.

RedHotWings · 18/11/2024 00:22

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Your symptoms of buzzing sensations in the fingertips, technically called paresthesia, often emerge during periods of hyperventilation associated with anxiety. During a panic attack, rapid breathing alters the balance of carbon dioxide in your blood, leading to these sensations along with lightheadedness and dizziness. The intense muscle aching you experienced afterward is a normal response to the prolonged muscle tension during a panic attack - your body essentially went through an intense workout without moving.

The sleep deprivation you're experiencing with your one-year-old is particularly significant medically. Chronic sleep deprivation affects cortisol levels (stress hormones) and can create a physiological state that mimics anxiety, making you more susceptible to panic attacks

itsmylife7 · 18/11/2024 20:09

Is there a reason you're choosing not to take vitamin D ?

Being deficient in vitamin D can cause many health issues.

Zd24 · 19/11/2024 13:23

Thank you all for your replies.
i have forced myself to make a doctors appointment for tomorrow as I can’t go on like this.
I’ve woke up again this morning just shaky, racing heart and because I’m thinking on it it’s making my heart race faster and I end up feeling more lightheaded, I wake up feeling ok it’s throughout the day. I’ve been having 5 to 6 panic attacks a day since I woke up on Saturday. The tingly feelings in my fingers have gone but I’ve constantly got an achy chest I think because of the panic attacks.

i will admit I’ve always had anxiety and am a worrier but I’m so scared I’ve pushed myself to far this time and this is some kind of nervous breakdown, I’ve been pushing and pushing myself for years and not gave myself the rest I’ve needed including this past year since having my third baby to the point I genuinely don’t know how to make myself relax, I can’t force myself to rest either because my mind goes to 100 other things I need to do plus I have kids and a husband who isn’t home so I’m finding it impossible to just say enough is enough and make myself completely rest. I do have ocd and our current house is too small ( we are looking at moving in the next 6 months) so nothing has its place and so for someone that has ocd it’s never clean enough for me so I can’t let myself rest in that aspect too I just keep going because I constantly feel everything is a mess.

I will tell the doctor everything tomorrow but I’m just so scared and worried that I’ve now pushed myself too far, I can’t help but google and now scared myself even further that severe stress and panic attacks can cause heart attack and stroke.

I’m also worried that I’ll never go back to normal.

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Zd24 · 19/11/2024 13:24

itsmylife7 · 18/11/2024 20:09

Is there a reason you're choosing not to take vitamin D ?

Being deficient in vitamin D can cause many health issues.

I’ll be honest I just forgot too for the first few weeks I was taking both iron and vitamin d every single day and then slowly stopped. I am wondering if it is a combination of severe stress and also the low vitamin d that is not helping it

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itsmylife7 · 19/11/2024 17:28

you must make yourself a priority.

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