well,
I rang the out of hours doc, and got put on the list.
In the meantime I rang dh to see if he was (by any miraculous chance) on his way home so I wouldn't have to drag (autistic) dd1 out after I'd put her to bed. He suggested I ring the surgery again, and see if i could leave a message registering my displeasure (!) - I had fully intended to leave it til Monday to talk through why no-one bothered ringing back.
So I did. I had no idea whehter the answerphone actually took messages, but left a ranting message anyway, along the lines of
"well, thank you for the service that you have provided. I have waited all afternoon to be called back about my ill daughter, and even checked twice to make sure that we wouldn't be overlooked, as the matter is concerning, and it is difficult to be seen over the weekend, should it get any worse.
"I am glad to see that no one actually cares whether patients are worried or not.
"I have just phoned the out of hours service, and they have told me it will be well after 8pm by the time we are seen. So I will have to drag both children out again having put them to bed. One is highly contagious, and one is autistic. I expect that will be nice and easy."
2 minutes later the doctor rang back and said "I heard the last part of your message..."
So, I nipped down to the surgery, and got dd2 seen. The upshot is GP is confident that all ok at the moment, and we need to keep an eye on it over the weekend.
suspect we are off the GP's christmas card list, though