Late to the party on this one, but I have lupus, diagnosed for around 8/9 years. Symptoms for 15. It does take a long time to get diagnosed, I’ve found most GPs are very disengaged.
My symptoms were Joint pain, fatigue, swelling, nerve pain issues, kidney issues, the only thing I never had was the facial rash.
I am now under dual care of a consultant at a local hospital who I see 4 times a year and my GP who I see less.
My day to day isn’t too bad, I work full time in a corporate job, happily married and currently expecting our first little one.
Lupus taught me to listen to my body and when to ask for help, my anti body markers are exceptionally high so I am on meds to stop the lupus from harming the babies development, but on the whole it’s manageable.
i hope you have made some headway with your referrals and bloods.
Keep pushing for an answer. Markers change so if the bloods didn’t show anything, get them done again the next time you feel flared!
Wishing you well x