I'm almost certain my 5yo contracted whooping cough recently and wanted to share my experience for others as it would have helped me to read it (as it has done reading this thread and others.)
After a few days of fever, tiredness, headaches and a mild cough subsided, a horrible cough that came in waves at night time and almost like clockwork, replaced it. It also came about anytime he physically exerted himself. Although we kept him off school whilst he was feverish, once it just seemed to be a cough, we packed him back off to school.
Gradually over 5 or 6 days the cough started to improve (I'm sure thanks to him being vaccinated it was a mild case), but having never really heard much about whooping cough before, I finally caught a news story about the uptick in cases and everything seemed to line up, including the fact that no one had yet caught the same thing in the household. Whooping cough has a much longer "incubation" period than viral infections it seems.
I stopped him from attending school the following day and made a GP appointment. The GP barely listened to me when I tried to explain, just listened to his chest, said he thought he may have a very mild infection and gave him some antibiotics. He said "there's lots of this sort of thing I've seen recently." I asked him whether he could attend school as by then he seemed fairly well other than the night bouts of coughing. The doctor advised waiting 48 hours before sending him back. When I mentioned whooping cough he said "well could be", and that was that.
Waiting at the chemists whilst we picked up the antibiotics was another young child who was coughing virtually non-stop, the very distinctive whooping style cough. The waiting area was full of elderly and vulnerable people. I hate to think how many people my son may have infected in the 6 days or so before I made the connection, and how many people this child might have made ill!
Thankfully my son's all improved, but his symptoms subsided around 9 days ago, and a couple of days ago I started to have a fever myself. My 2 yo and my wife both seem to have avoided it, likely due being vaccinated much more recently than me. I purchased a COVID testing kit to rule that out as the symptoms seemed fairly similar for me. After getting a negative test I made a phone appointment with the GP. She was absolutely dead set against prescribing me antibiotics to begin with and seemed very dismissive of the idea of it being whooping cough, despite the prevelance and the timeline with my son's illness. I'm not the kind of person to cry wolf and I have a decent track record when it comes to diagnosing all manner of weird stuff thanks to the internet (aware that must be a GPs worse nightmare). I have suffered in silence before but this time I was very keen to try and do everything I could NOT to spend the next 100 days coughing so I made my point more forcefully. The doctor relented and sounded angry and resigned. Goodness knows what's going on behind the scenes.
I'm hoping at least as I have the antibiotics whilst in the beginning stages that it will do something to assist me in the long term and mean that at least I'll know I'm not infectious to others.
Goodness knows what you have to do to get referred to testing services. When the government figures are published for April I'll be shocked if they don't show a huge spike, even despite the lack of testing. I'll be shocked if there is not a vast increase in the number of deaths in babies and infants too.
It beggars belief to me that the government has been so slow to react to this - even just with some more advisory notices. You'd think post-covid we'd have learnt some lessons and would be far more agile in dealing with this kind of thing. Goodness knows what affect whooping cough will have on people who have suffered lung damage and long term affects from COVID - until this year the sample size for that hasn't been very large.
Sorry for the long post, just feeling a bit despondent!