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A question for those of you who are children of an alcoholic/alcoholics about your attitude to drinking and that of your siblings......

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foxinsocks · 26/03/2008 12:36

It's a bit nosy really but have found myself wondering about this recently and realised mumsnet wasn't a bad place to ask given how many children of alcoholics there seem to be!

So, I have 2 'official' younger siblings (both sisters) and 2 younger cousins who, for all intensive purposes, are brothers as we were brought up together over many years. I am the eldest of the lot and our age ranges from 28 to 35.

1 sibling is a complete tee total as is her dh. 1 is already an alcoholic. 1 is going down the route towards possibly becoming one but is still fairly far off (more a mental illness issue I reckon). 1 is quite a heavy social drinker, more so than me I think (otherwise, we are quite similar in our attitudes), but not at alcoholic level and I think unlikely to go that way.

I drink when I feel like it, certainly not as much as I drank as a student (when I really hit it hard). I have no problem with drinking, don't think I have an addictive personality and don't drink that much anyway but have noticed that I have more of a problem (too strong a word) with dh drinking a lot of wine (nothing else like beer or spirits) as this is what is mainly abused by the alcoholics in my family.

So how has it worked out in your family ?

OP posts:
berolina · 26/03/2008 20:22

FIL is a dependent drinker. dh is teetotal. Until his early 20s he used to drink infrequently but excessively and scared himself after cycling 12km drunk one night in the dark and waking up next morning in bed with no memory of the trip but a huge bump on his head. He stopped drinking immediately and hasn't drunk since, except for occasional sips from my champagne glass at our wedding and some NYEs.

He says he knows that if he drank it could become an insidious habit, and his father is a deterrent.

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