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Unsure if bloated or weight gain (pics included)

78 replies

OliveDreamer · 18/02/2024 15:28

Hello,

I need help identifying if I have put on weight or I am bloated. My stomach has been like this for at least the last year and if there is an issue I want to address it. I think I have body dysmorphia and so I am really struggling to know my body at the moment.

I have deffo put on weight the last 2 years even though I generally healthy and active, however my stomach is so round, I'm struggling to figure out if it is bloat or fat.

My parter and I are TTC and so if there are gut health issues I do want to address it. Alternatively, I don't want to go to a GP, waste their time and look stupid if I have just put on weight and I can't tell.

Unsure if bloated or weight gain (pics included)
Unsure if bloated or weight gain (pics included)
OP posts:
Notinthemood12 · 28/02/2024 19:08

So what should be happening from
the gp is bloods including ca125, a physical examination, a transvaginal ultrasound in case of ovarian cysts or a fibroid. Your GP has fobbed you off.

Trinity65 · 28/02/2024 19:14

Its bloating sweetheart

Get yourself a GP appointment ..

anunlikelyseahorse · 28/02/2024 19:16

Did you see a 'proper' GP or assistant practitioner? Either which way that is not good enough, you need a proper examination.
You might be better off with a female GP. But you need a second opinion.

PragmaticWench · 28/02/2024 19:19

Trinity65 · 28/02/2024 19:14

Its bloating sweetheart

Get yourself a GP appointment ..

Try reading the thread, sweetheart.

Trinity65 · 28/02/2024 19:22

PragmaticWench · 28/02/2024 19:19

Try reading the thread, sweetheart.

How Rude are You ?!!

I was genuine as it goes as I have severe bloating and been fast tracked at hospital .
I was attempting to be helpful you piece of work with your unfounded reply!!

Nohousemove · 28/02/2024 19:23

Trinity65 · 28/02/2024 19:22

How Rude are You ?!!

I was genuine as it goes as I have severe bloating and been fast tracked at hospital .
I was attempting to be helpful you piece of work with your unfounded reply!!

The OP has been to the GP.

Nohousemove · 28/02/2024 19:23

Definitely get a second opinion.

ScabbyHorse · 28/02/2024 19:46

I had similar symptoms as you (very bloated, someone told me I looked pregnant) and the doctor tested my ca125 levels which were raised. Then I had a scan at the hospital and found out I have adenomyosis, not to worry you but the doctor was concerned it could be ovarian cancer. I got the mirena coil and started a low inflammation diet and it's cleared up quite well.

LovelyJubbles · 28/02/2024 19:50

Is there a chance you could have PCOS? I have it and my belly goes like that

Justwingingit2005 · 28/02/2024 20:32

Does the bloating come and go?
If it does that's not as worrying. If it's like that all the time you need a ca125 and an ultrasound.

dottiedodah · 28/02/2024 21:23

Maybe try another GP or A and E? This is not a normal tummy and needs some investigation

TwigTheWonderKid · 28/02/2024 21:34

dottiedodah · 28/02/2024 21:23

Maybe try another GP or A and E? This is not a normal tummy and needs some investigation

Definitely get an urgent second opinion from another GP but it's neither an accident nor an emergency so not A&E.

Offleyhoo · 28/02/2024 21:35

Don't want to worry you but you must go back, don't wait, and ask for another appointment to include a physical examination, and as others have said, a CA125 blood test. Please ring first thing.

endofthelinefinally · 29/02/2024 11:19

Agree with pp saying you must go back. Ask to see another gp. The one you saw is a disgrace.

WinkyTinky · 29/02/2024 11:25

I was exactly like this around a year ago, but also with pain and so I went to GP and ended up having various tests including CA125 which was high. Thankfully that wasn't an indication of anything sinister, but during the vaginal examinations, a few polyps were found and the consultant whipped them straight out, which I wasn't prepared for, but it was honestly like popping a balloon. I could not believe the difference. All bloating instantly gone. Ask for a check for this OP.

Viennabear · 29/02/2024 11:44

Appalling and neglectful behaviour from a medical professional. Probably very unlikely to be anything sinister given your age, but should be ruled out. Make another appointment ( with a different GP) and ask for an examination and blood tests. Refer them to the NHS guidelines related to your symptoms if they continue to be unhelpful.

mrsrobin · 29/02/2024 11:56

OP - that is a ridiculous consultation from that GP. If there was no examination, I would insist on an appointment with another GP. I had a very large cyst removed a few years ago but I didn't even notice any bloating at time time. Like PPs have mentioned, it could be various things that need dealing with.

Droolylabradors · 29/02/2024 12:18

PragmaticWench · 28/02/2024 19:19

Try reading the thread, sweetheart.

Astonishing. I've been in with several issues over the last year related to gynae and I've had a full exam of my stomach each time.

Good luck with getting a repeat appointment. That is not going to be fixed by a big bowel movement.

Droolylabradors · 29/02/2024 12:19

Fyi my stomach was like that recently when my coil was pulled out slightly by the practice nurse who did my smear test. I had 5 days of it that size and I was crawling the walls.

Guttedme · 29/02/2024 13:47

Sorry, you are a dead ringer for pictures of skinny girls I've seen with Fibroids.

These medics are so hands off I know the first time I presented with incontinence issues at A&E the senior nurse asked me rather then feeling if my stomach was distended. I couldn't believe it.

Young people do get problems
My cancer was dismissed as UTIs for two years – I was furious, but what could I do? (msn.com)

MSN

https://www.msn.com/en-ca/health/other/my-cancer-was-dismissed-as-utis-for-two-years-i-was-furious-but-what-could-i-do/ss-BB1iTVP4

BirdsofPrey1 · 29/02/2024 14:02

I had clockwork periods but had severe endometriosis. I had large ovarian cysts. My belly looked like that. I would see a different GP!

LibbyLemoncake · 13/03/2024 14:22

How are you now @OliveDreamer, did you ever find out the cause?/Try a different GP?

OliveDreamer · 13/03/2024 14:49

Still yet to find out the cause, I have a gp appointment booked for next Friday (earliest I could get and I booked that last week)

Laxatives made no difference really apart from me shitting my guts out for the past few days 😅

Attached a photo of my stomach today - this is after eating barely anything for the past few days and a gluten free bagel for lunch

We have just found out I'm pregnant (5weeks)🥰 so hoping they take me a bit more seriously at my next appointment but will be requesting a different doctor for sure

OP posts:
LibbyLemoncake · 13/03/2024 16:42

Oh congratulations on your pregnancy But yes hopefully they’ll sort out what’s causing it soon.

Mummame222 · 13/03/2024 16:55

@OliveDreamer How hard is it? It doesn’t look like a typical distribution of weight gain but it could be. Is your tummy hard? Does it hurt?

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