Hi everyone,
So I’m in year 3 of back issues and finally got an MRI but I’m now left in limbo again by dismissive doctors.
I developed back pain along my left side and lower back after starting a new job with lots of standing, so got in to a physio. She felt like it was a tight quadratus lumborum, gave some stretches and advised spiky massage balls to loosen it up. All went ok, but after 3 months, I started getting lower back pain and tightness and felt like I was tipping backwards. She felt like it was due to the unused muscles being active again, and said to keep going with the exercises and signed me out.
The pain got worse over the next 2 months. I ended up on sick leave. About 6months after physio, I tried to go back to the exercises, and ended up unable to stand or even sit for nearly two months. My lower back felt tight, on fire, was causing nerve pain in my sciatic nerve both legs and up my spine. Lying on my stomach gave some relief. I’m normally very active and flexible, hiking, cycling, yoga, can bend and put palms flat to the ground no issues, but this left me unable to touch my kneecaps. I could lift anything heavier than a cup and pushing/pulling wasn’t possible. I couldn’t go out, or do anything around the house.
GP advised ibuprofen, then co-codamol, then diazepam. Nothing put a dent in it and they gave nothing else. This happened two other occasions, both times I tried to do the exercises from the physio, went out walking or tried stretching. I was certain it was a disc from the symptoms.
I finally ended up getting insurance for an MRI because I was getting nowhere. I got the results but I’ve now had a very dismissive specialist telling me ‘you don’t need to be able to touch your toes’ when I mention my usual range of motion, and ‘just take an ibuprofen’ when I said the pain was a 9/10, whilst laughing at me.
I got a picture of the MRI screen and read through the notes, which says I have 3 discs bulging, with one causing and mild spinal canal stenosis. It also mentions I have a minor lumbar spine curvature, and cysts on my ovaries. This charming doctor only mentioned two of the discs and omitted the rest. My fiancé was with me and agreed that he laughed off the issue, and didn’t seem interested.
I’m lost now, unsure how to proceed. I‘m going to ask to see a different specialist but worried about being fobbed off again. I’ve no idea if this is fixable or if I’m stuck like this. He didn’t advise any treatment. It’s acting up again now after bringing a box of trainers to the postie. I’ve been in a real low with more than a few crying sessions since seeing the doctor. I had to leave work because of this and I’m stunned at the lack of help or resolution 3 years later.