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Horrible dentist experience - WWYD

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Flatulence · 30/01/2024 16:01

I've just got home from the dentist and I'm really upset about what happened. Looking for advice from any dentists/dental nurses or anyone who knows about these things.

I'm in my 40s and only have one filling in a lower molar. Because of the experience of when that was done I've become a nervous patient but good experiences in recent years (including having the filling replaced a few times) have eased that anxiety. However I feel like I'm not back to square one after today's experience.

About 2 weeks ago, I broke part of my tooth that's filled by biting on popcorn. I booked in a few days later for an emergency appointment, at which point a tiny bit of additional filling material was added to fill the little fracture that was next to my filling.

Four days later, the additional filling material fell out. I booked back in for an emergency appointment again.

This time, the dentist said he could do a similar repair, but he'd need to drill a little bit of enamel off first. He said I wouldn't need an anaesthetic.

He started drilling: pain. I told him and he decided to use an anaesthetic. I haf to tell him I always have the adrenaline-free anaesthetic (it's in my notes). He then numbed the tooth with one injection in the buccal gum and one in the lingual gum.

He started drilling again: still painful. I told him this. He hadn't checked if I was numb before doing this.

He then gave it a poke with the probe: still painful and he seemed shocked by this. I said although my lip was numb my teeth all felt normal.

He's now booked me in to have the whole filling redone tomorrow but I'm now dreading it. I've got a temp filling in the hole he drilled (and the broken bit).

I'm an NHS patient so I end up getting whichever dentist is around and just have to suck it up. Not seen this dentist before (other than for the initial repair).

What should I do?

Is what happened normal? I don't feel it is.

I'm anxious anyway but I'm now scared that he'll cock it up. Help!

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Flatulence · 30/01/2024 21:03

Bump

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Paw2024 · 30/01/2024 21:04

Are you a redhead or have EDS?

Flatulence · 30/01/2024 21:28

Not a red head, no - very much a brunette and no redheads in the immediate family.
I don't have EDS or any other hypermobility as far as I know. I've never had a problem getting numb before now - for dental procedures or non-dental procedures using a local.
I've had my one filling replaced several times, and also had three of four wisdom teeth removed over the years because of impaction. Never felt a thing.
However, every time I've had a local dental anaesthetic before it's been via a "block" (injection into the back of my mouth, more or less where the mandible and maxilla meet). This time it was an infusion-type injection: done into the gum next to the affected tooth. Not sure if it makes a difference generally but it seemed to today for me!

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Paw2024 · 30/01/2024 21:32

Hopefully they will really numb you up this time
I only asked as I'm a redhead and had a wisdom tooth filled recently, took 6 injections to numb me and I was sent out to the waiting room twice to wait for it to work

lioneggs · 30/01/2024 21:52

If there's an infection it usually takes longer to get numb. If you were In for an emg app it wouldn't have been a quick visit so he wouldn't have had the time to keep topping it up. Tomorrow will be better as it's an actual app and they'll know you weren't numb today so will be prepared x

Cattymonster · 31/01/2024 07:25

I just wanted to send Flowers OP. It was idiot dentists drilling my tooth without anaesthetic when I was a child that caused a lifelong fear of dentists in me. That was in the 1960/1970s. I'm staggered to hear that it's still happening 😳

catlovingdoctor · 31/01/2024 07:28

Cattymonster · 31/01/2024 07:25

I just wanted to send Flowers OP. It was idiot dentists drilling my tooth without anaesthetic when I was a child that caused a lifelong fear of dentists in me. That was in the 1960/1970s. I'm staggered to hear that it's still happening 😳

But he did use anaesthetic, the OP just didn't get numb which can happen for a variety of reasons.

Cattymonster · 31/01/2024 07:31

@catlovingdoctor

No, initial he didn't use anaesthetic, and instead told the OP that drilling into enamel on her tooth would not hurt.

This time, the dentist said he could do a similar repair, but he'd need to drill a little bit of enamel off first. He said I wouldn't need an anaesthetic.

He started drilling: pain. I told him and he decided to use an anaesthetic.

sleekcat · 31/01/2024 07:34

At the appointment you will be able to have a discussion about what happened last time and I expect they will be much more careful to check that you are numb. I had a similar thing done and was told to raise my hand if I wanted them to stop at any point.
I don't have a fear of the dentist but I have awful memories of being put to sleep at the dentist as a child to have some teeth out, and I have had a life long fear of general anaesthetic as a result. So I can completely understand how you feel.

sumptuous · 31/01/2024 07:39

Pay private and ask to be put to sleep.

Flatulence · 31/01/2024 08:38

Thanks everyone. Fingers crossed he'll numb me up properly this time as we have a much longer appointment.

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MillyMollyMardy · 31/01/2024 10:50

@Flatulence I'm a dentist and sorry to hear you had a bad experience. It sounds like they used an infltration which most of the time works brilliantly even for lower back teeth but when it doesn't it doesn't. Sometimes if a nerve is inflammed it can need more anaesthetic but it may simply be that you need a block anaesthetic for that tooth.
Just tell them when you go in that you're feeling really anxious as the tooth wasn't numb at your last appointment and want to check they'll use a block this time. They will understand.

I saw someone yesterday who now has a big note on his notes that says lots of anesthetic for future reference and they get told to remind us as well.

Flatulence · 31/01/2024 11:56

Thank you @MillyMollyMardy - that's really reassuring.
I've only had a block before by the sounds of it and they've always worked perfectly so perhaps I'm just one of those people for whom infiltration anaesthetic doesn't work all that well... Or maybe it's just this tooth (it's not painful or even sensitive at the moment - only when he was drilling).
I'll make sure to get my dentist to check I'm fully numb today and let him know I'm really anxious. Thank you!

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Cattymonster · 31/01/2024 22:26

How did it go? 🤞

Flatulence · 01/02/2024 10:11

A quick update:

Filling is all sorted. Took a while and some extra anaesthetic to get fully numb but once I was I didn't feel a thing and everything went smoothly.

Having dental work is never enjoyable (the sounds, having your mouth open for ages, hands in mouth, weird tasting chemicals) but this was a fine as it could be.

Thanks for your reassurance all ❤️

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Cattymonster · 01/02/2024 17:38

Great news, OP 💪👍

Gettingbysomehow · 01/02/2024 17:40

In my experience NHS dentists have always been awful, either new dentists or someone trained abroad. I stopped going because of that.
Can you go private for this one tooth.

MillyMollyMardy · 01/02/2024 21:23

@Flatulence I'm so glad to hear all went well for you.

rainbowbee · 01/02/2024 22:10

Great news it went well. I am a redhead and have to explain this to them after a similar experience. It should be better known.

Whatadayyyy · 01/02/2024 22:14

What is this about redheads?!

FindingMeno · 01/02/2024 22:28

I have problems with dental anaesthesia not being fully effective on me.
Luckily dentists understand this now but years ago I had some horrific experiences because I was simply not believed, so I do sympathise.
My dentist nowadays is amazing fortunately!

Flatulence · 01/02/2024 22:44

Anaesthesia is so weird.
My understanding from a friend who's a consultant anaesthetist is that the exact mechanism of many anaesthetics isn't particularly well understood... But we know they work so we just get on with it (obviously this is my total idiot's understanding of what is no doubt a highly complex thing with heaps of nuance and exceptions and perhaps only applies to general anesthetics 🤷‍♀️).
But yes @Whatadayyyy redheads are - for some reason - much more likely to encounter challenges with being knocked out/getting numb. Same for people with certain medical conditions... And some people generally without any apparent reason.
My step father needs about 80 syringes of anaesthetic (slight exaggeration) to get numb at the dentist - has it written all over his notes now!
Maybe I'm turning into one of those hard-to-numb people. Bloody hope not though - my dental phobia does not need additional challenges!

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