Mine was painful, definitely. I thought about the surgery for 2 years and waited until it was becoming more painful .
Certain shoes were a definite no (My new Dr. Martens😔).
Squatting down to do gardening was painful after about 15 minutes and sometimes, randomly I would get sharp stabbing pains in the joint..often at night or when walking - really sore!
I used to sleep with my foot over the edge of the mattress because it felt horrible resting it on the sheet.
This has been harder than I expected, I'm week 8 now and I've lost a lot of strength, flexibility and fitness and I've gained 4kg - just because I was used to being so active. The scars have healed but toe flexibility is not back to normal (I can't do proper planks in yoga yet) so I'm doing physio on the foot.
I took 10 weeks off work (active career), I'm back in two weeks and I am a bit worried, my foot gets puffy and stiff after a heavy day.
I'm glad I had it done, it's been harder and less of a "break" from work than I had hoped...a definite recuperation. I think I'm where I should be though? Just impatient and frustrated . It can take a year for things to finish healing.
I wouldn't have done it for cosmetic reasons, especially given the clot and the surgeon advised specifically against doing it for appearances sake.
Happy to answer anything else, I found these forums really useful.